Newsletter May 2023

Ohio is often seen as a swing state for elections, and that tag is most accurate when it comes to temperatures in May. But pretty soon, we will be complaining about the heat! May is special as we celebrate Mother’s Day – honoring the unparalleled bond of love we share with our mothers. Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms in the community!

As we celebrate Memorial Day later this month, let us thank the brave men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. I hope you all have a safe and happy Memorial Day weekend!

In addition to literary contributions, this edition features news of our graduating high school seniors. If anyone was missed, please share your information with us so we can include it in our June edition. Wishing all our seniors the very best as they embark on their new journey.

Wishing safe travels to those of you heading to your Kerala homes for summer vacation. I hope you enjoy time with family and friends and come back refreshed!

— Smitha Nishant

Sreejith Chandran’s Random Ramblings

Sreejith Chandran

(One half of his brain has gone nomad and the other has gone in search of the first. Glorifying his random ramblings and packaging it is his main hobby! Otherwise sane and grounded.)

തച്ചുടച്ച അടിമത്വവും കൂട്ടിലടച്ച പ്രഭുത്വവും

കുറേ ദിവസമായി വയറ്റിന്നു പോകുന്നില്ല! ആകെ ഒരു പിരിമുറുക്കം. കേശവൻ വൈദ്യനെ കണ്ടപ്പോൾ കുഴപ്പമൊന്നുമില്ല, രാവിലെ എണീറ്റ് നടന്നാൽ മതി എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു. പൊതുവെ എനിക്ക് രാവിലെ എണീക്കുന്നതു ഇഷ്ടമല്ല, എന്നാലും വേണ്ടില്ല ഇനി അതിന്റെ പേരിൽ നിലവറയുടെ വാതിൽ തുറക്കാതിരിക്കണ്ട എന്ന് കരുതി അടുത്ത ദിവസം തന്നെ നടക്കാൻ ഇറങ്ങി. ഏകദേശം ബേക്കറി എത്തി കാണും, ദേ വരുന്നു പാലസിലെ കാർ. ദിസ് ഈസ് എ കാർ അല്ല, വർഗ്ഗ ശത്രുവിന്റെ കാർ!

രക്തം തിളച്ചു മറിഞ്ഞു, ചങ്കിലെ ചൈനയും കൂവി. ചായ്! അല്ലേൽ വേണ്ട. എന്തിലേയോ ക്യൂബയും ഒക്കെ മനസ്സിൽ തെളിഞ്ഞു. ഒന്നും നോക്കിയില്ല, മുണ്ടു പൊക്കി കാണിച്ചു! രാജാവും രാജ ഭക്തിയുമൊക്കെ അങ്ങ് പണ്ട്, മനസ്സിൽ നീട്ടി രണ്ടു ഇന്ക്വിലാബും വിളിച്ചു.

എന്നാൽ ഇതിന്റെ കലിപ്പ് തീർക്കാൻ യൂണിവേഴ്‌സിറ്റിക്ക് അടുത്തുള്ള കുമാരന്റെ തട്ടുകടയിൽ നിന്ന് ഒരു കാലി ചായ കുടിക്കാം എന്ന് വച്ചു. ഒരു വിത്തൗട്ട്! കുമാരൻ വിത്തൗട്ട് ചായയുമായി വന്നു. അവന്റെ കയ്യിൽ ഒരു പുതിയ വാച്ച്! ങേ, ഇവനും ബൂർഷ്വ ആയോ ഫഹവാനേ! (അല്ല, പുല്ലു നമുക്ക് ഫഹവാനും കോപ്പും ഒന്നും ഇല്ലല്ലോ.) എന്തായാലും തിരുത്താൻ നിന്നില്ല, നീ ബൂർഷ്വാസിയുടെ കൊണങ്ങൾ ഒന്നും എന്നോട് കാണിക്കല്ലു കേട്ടോടാ, നിന്റെ കട ഞാൻ പൂട്ടിക്കും എന്ന് ഒരു കാച്ചു കാച്ചീട്ടു അവിടുന്ന് ഇറങ്ങി.

ഇറക്കം ഇറങ്ങാൻ കുറച്ചു പ്രയാസം ആയിരുന്നു. അധ്വാനിക്കുന്ന ജനവിഭാഗത്തിന് വേണ്ടി ഘോരഘോരം പ്രസംഗിക്കുമെങ്കിലും, സെക്രെട്ടറിയേറ്റ് എ/സി ആക്കിയതിനാൽ ഈ ഇടയായിട്ടു വിയർപ്പിന്റെ അസ്ക്യത ഉണ്ടേ. പത്രം വായിക്കാനായി എന്നാൽ പിന്നെ PKJ സെന്ററിൽ കയറാം. പടി കയറി ചെന്നപ്പോൾ അകത്തു നിന്നൊരു ആക്രോശം, “കടക്കു പുറത്തു”!! എന്നോട് തന്നെയാണോ, അതെ എന്നോട് തന്നെ. “ഓ, മ്പറാ!” എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു ഇറങ്ങിയോടി . ഓടി എന്ന് വെച്ചാൽ ഓടി തള്ളി, ആ ശബ്ദം എനിക്കത്രയും ഭയം ആണ്!

വീടെത്തി മിണ്ടാതെ പോയി കുളിച്ചു വന്നപ്പോളേക്കും ലേറ്റ് ആയി. ഇന്ന് ബൈക്ക് വേണ്ട, നല്ല ചൂടുണ്ട്, കാർ തന്നെ എടുത്തേക്കാം, ഒരു കൂട്ടം വിദ്യാർത്ഥികളെ അഭിസംബോധന ചെയ്യേണ്ടതായിട്ടുണ്ട്! “തച്ചുടച്ച അടിമത്വവും കൂട്ടിലടച്ച പ്രഭുത്വവും” !

My Char Dham Trip (October 2 – 16, 2022) – Venu Nair

(Venugopalan (Venu) Nair, a native of Kottarakara, Kerala migrated to the USA in 1975. He is currently retired (from American Electric Power in 2009), and lives in Westerville, Ohio with his wife Komalam. He has two sons and four grand children. Both sons along with their families live in Indianapolis.)

We had an unforgettable trip to the Himalaya region in India. The main purpose was to visit four holy places called Char Dham in the Himalayas namely Yamunotri, Gangotri, Kedarnath and Badrinath. These are four temples, all them at more than 10,000 feet above sea level.

The Kedarnath temple is a Siva temple, one of the twelve Jyothirlinga temples. It is situated at 11,700 feet above sea level. The Badrinath temple is a Vishnu temple located in the Himalayas at 10,700 feet above sea level. The Gangotri temple is located at the origin of river Ganga. This temple is at 11,200 feet from sea level. This is where King Bhageeratha did penance to bring Ganga from heaven to earth. The Yamunotri temple is located at the beginning of the Yamuna river, and is 10,800 feet above sea level. Bharatiya (Sanathana) dharma considers all rivers as female goddesses and are worshipped as such. This is part of worshipping all nature which nourishes all of us as gods and goddesses.

The trip was basically a spiritual journey. We were six people from the USA. In addition to me and my wife, Komalam, there was a couple from Columbus (Mohan and Elizabeth Das), my sister and brother-in-law (Viswanath and Indira Kurup) from Phoenix, AZ, and Komalam’s brother, Ravi Nair from India. The members are shown in this picture taken near the Gangotri temple. At Haridwar, we joined a tour group from Kerala. This group has been doing this annual tour every year; in fact, this was their 48th tour, and 50th year (they didn’t have this tour during COVID years). This was their first tour after COVID. This was my second tour with them, my first was in 2003. That year I was alone; Komalam stayed back in the US since she didn’t get vacation. That tour took 35 days since the group visited other places such as Delhi and Mathura. In fact this tour was basically for Komalam. It was her desire to go visit the Kedarnath temple. She had already visited the 11 of the 12 Jyothirlinga (Siva) temples except Kedarnath. (The twelve Jyothirlinga temples, by the way, are: Somnath, Nageshwar, Bhimashankar, Trimbakeshwar, Grishneshwar, Vaidyanath, Mahakaleshwar, Omkareshwar, Kashi Vishwanath, Kedarnath, Rameswaram and Mallikarjuna. These temples are spread all over India.)

We joined the group from Kerala at Haridwar, which is the starting point of the tour. River Ganga enters the plains from Himalayas here and it is considered a holy place. All Chardham yatras start from Haridwar. There are many ashrams and temples here. Every evening Ganga Arati is done at Har Ki Pauri, a place in the banks of the Ganga river. This is an amazing spectacle to be really witnessed. There are mentions of Haridwar in old scriptures including Mahabharata and Vayu Purana. The map below shows the relative location of this township. The group from Kerala had travelled on train from Kochuveli near Thiruvananthapuram, and took three days to reach Haridwar. The six of us, from the US flew to Delhi from Kochi, and hired a minivan to reach Haridwar by the evening of October 2. The group was more than a 100, including some kitchen staff to prepare delicious Malayali food for all of us. The next day we visited a few temples and ashrams. In the evening, all the ladies in the group did Puja at Kankhal Neeladhara, on the shores of Ganga. We started the Char Dham tour on October 4 early morning in four buses.

COMA Badminton Tournament Report – Anoop Nair

(Anoop Nair is a Software Engineer living in Delaware Ohio. He loves to scribble, paint, and travel when he is away from coding. Following cricket and experimenting with his culinary skills are other pastimes.)

Badminton is a sport that is enjoyed all around the world by millions of people of a wide range of ages. It is a sport that explores speed changes, reaction time demands, strength and endurance challenges, and of course heart-pumping fun. The sport is much popular among our Malayalee community, and you can always find a group of enthusiastic folks smashing and rallying at the Lazelle Woods community center on weekends with birdies flying and racquets sounding whoosh!!

COMA organized an open Badminton tournament on April 29th at Supreme Sports and Events, Plain City. I did not participate as a player but visited to watch some games and do some volunteering. It was a wonderful experience and the EC team did an outstanding job in organizing the event which was well received even by people outside of the Indian community. The event had 3 categories – Men’s doubles, Women’s doubles, and Mixed doubles. 56 teams participated in different categories with Men’s doubles alone seeing 32 teams competing for the championship.

COMA Badminton 2023 Men’s Doubles Div-1 Champions (Tianchen Li & Delong Liu) collecting trophies from Derek Lee

The event saw an overwhelming response not only from Indian groups in Columbus and around, but also other South Asian communities in central Ohio. I was also amazed to see young kids paired up with their parents playing the sport with so much fervor and excitement.

We saw a dominance of Southeast Asians here, but our COMA folks too demonstrated class and competence. Many of our folks moved into pre-quarters and quarters, displaying sheer agility and dexterity. I want to give a special mention to Anoop Joseph and Dilin Joy who valiantly fought a semifinal bout in Division 1 against Tianchen Li and Delong Liu. Their game demonstrated some real professional talent even though they went down fighting the Chinese pair, but the smashes, drops, deceptions, and returns were proficient. Tianchen and Delong eventually won the championship.

COMA Badminton 2023 Mixed Doubles Champions (Yunan Zhu & Tianchen Li) collecting trophies from Anoop Joseph

Division 2 of the Men’s doubles saw an interesting family duel between two generations of the same family with their roots in Nepal. The senior generation involving Raj Yogi and Son Tamang triumphed over the youngsters Arpan Tamang and Kshitiz Lepez. The Women’s event and Mixed doubles also saw some good participation.

Overall, the event was a grand success for COMA, and the EC team did meticulous planning to finish the event in a timely fashion and this was well appreciated by the participants. Lots of volunteers turned up for refereeing, for scoring and coordination, food management, and time keeping, showing our strength and spirit as always. I enjoyed this event, and as summer is knocking at our doorsteps, I am looking forward to seeing many more sporting events by COMA.

COMA Summer Party Drinks with Nish

The 2nd installment in COMA’s Cook Along series was done on May 5th. It featured cocktails and mocktails prepared live by Nish Nishant who was accompanied by Arun Davis. Several COMA patrons joined the online session and made those drinks along with Nish and Arun. The event was shot at COMA President Shibu Nair’s residence. Unfortunately, due to a technical glitch, the event could not be recorded.

Youth Achievements

Anjali Janardhanan won the first prize in the 2023 Regional Vocabulary Bee conducted by North South Foundation. She is a 7th grader at Karrer Middle School, Dublin. She’s the daughter of Anuja and Ajayan Janardhanan (former COMA President). Congratulations Anjali!

Nandana Presanth won 2nd place in the Women’s Saber Fencing Competition, held at Ohio High School. She is a 9th grader at Dublin Coffman High School and the daughter of former COMA President Presanth Krishnan.

High School Graduations

Melissa Thomas

Melissa Thomas (Lisa) graduated Summa Cum Laude from Olentangy Liberty High School. Lisa will be attending The Ohio State University in the fall and majoring in Health Science on a Pre-Med Track. Lisa is a recipient of the Morrill Distinction Scholarship from The Ohio State University. She will also be a part of the Health Sciences Scholars Program. In High School she was actively involved in many extracurricular activities. She was president of the Student Council, Psychology Club, Help for Hope Club, her school’s chapter of BuckeyeThon, and Class Cabinet. She has also volunteered at Marysville Memorial Hospital over the years and spreads her smile at the Powell Story Point retirement home. She is looking forward to the journey ahead of her and wishes for blessings from the COMA community.

Additional Achievements

  • Principal’s Leadership Award
  • AP Scholar award
  • Honors Diploma
  • Global Scholars Diploma
  • International DECA Qualifier

Lisa is the daughter of Julie and Manoj Thomas (both of whom are former COMA trustees / EC team members)

Karun Gopal

Karun Gopal, son of Arati and Vikas Gopal, is graduating summa cum laude from Olentangy High School. He will be attending the Ohio State University and plans to major in Computer Science and Engineering. Karun is a National Merit Commended Scholar, a three-time State qualifier in Lincoln Douglas and Public Forum debate, a school chamber orchestra violinist, and a member of the National Honor Society. In addition, he volunteers as an assistant teacher in the Bharatiya Hindu Temple Gurukul.

Joshua Abraham

Joshua Abraham is graduating on May 21st from Olentangy High School. He’s going to the University of Cincinnati, Lindner School of Business majoring in Finance. He’s the son of Nancy and former COMA EC team member, Joseph Abraham.

Shraddha Krishnan

Shraddha is graduating from Dublin Coffman High School. She is planning on attending Indiana University’s Kelley School Of Business, majoring in Marketing and International Business and minoring in Data Science. She is a valedictorian, member of the National Honors Society, recipient of the Presidential Award for Educational Excellence, National Merit commended scholar, recipient of the Celebration of Excellence award, and the recipient of a Dublin City Schools local scholarship. She received a Dean’s scholarship at Indiana University, and is excited to continue her studies, both abroad and in Bloomington. Go Hoosiers!

Shraddha is the daughter of Meera Vijayalakshmi and Hari Krishnan (former Trustee and President of COMA).

Newsletter April 2023

Smitha Nishant

It’s hard to believe that a quarter of the year has passed already. April is special for Malayalees all over the world as we get together with friends and family to celebrate Easter, Vishu, and Ramadan. We celebrate our unique Malayalee traditions for each one of these festivals, which gives us and our kids an opportunity to build and strengthen strong bonds with friends, and share common values regardless of differences in religion and faith.

This edition of the COMA newsletter includes Easter, Vishu and Iftar recipes from culinary experts from our community, and hopefully, a few of you may be able to incorporate these dishes as part of your celebrations. I hope you will all create happy memories that will be cherished for your entire lifetime!

If you would like to submit content for future editions, please reach out to the EC team (coma.officials@gmail.com). Content should be 250 words or fewer.

— Smitha Nishant

Upcoming COMA Charity drive

COMA will be setting up a donation link through which you can contribute funds to Different Art Centre, led by Professor Gopinath Muthukad. Different Art Centre educates and empowers specially abled children with various disabilities, and expands the focus of training from concentrating on magic to art forms such as music, dance, drama, cinema making, painting and skills in various musical instruments, all blended with a magical touch.

A mission that focuses on boosting self-confidence of specially-abled children by unleashing, recognizing and sharpening their raw talents through scientific methods involving various artforms – all leading to their empowerment in multiple ways.

This is a video of Professor Muthukad meeting with the COMA EC team and Trustees when he visited Columbus in March.

Sreejith Chandran’s Random Ramblings

Sreejith Chandran

(One half of his brain has gone nomad and the other has gone in search of the first. Glorifying his random ramblings and packaging it is his main hobby! Otherwise sane and grounded.)

എന്റെ ലോകം നീ മറന്നോ…

സഹപാഠികളായ കുറച്ചു പെൺകുട്ടികളോട് സംവദിച്ചു കൊണ്ടിരുന്ന എന്റെ അടുത്തേക്ക് വന്നു ചെവിയിൽ നീ പറഞ്ഞു, “ഓ കൃഷ്ണാ…!” മഞ്ഞു മായുന്നതും മഴപെയ്യുന്നതും കാക്കാതെ നിനക്ക് ഞാനെഴുതിയ അടുത്ത കുറിമാനം ഇങ്ങനെ ആയിരുന്നു, “എന്റെ രാധ!” ഇത്രമേൽ പ്രണയാർദ്രമായി അതിനു മുൻപും അതിനു ശേഷവും എഴുതിയിട്ടില്ല . രണ്ടു വാക്കിൽ എന്റെ മനസ് ഏറ്റവും ആഴത്തിൽ നിനക്ക് ഞാൻ തുറന്നു കാട്ടി! രാധയും കൃഷ്ണനും രണ്ടല്ല, ഒന്നാണെന്ന് മനസിലാക്കി കടന്നുപോയ കാലങ്ങൾ… തുളസിമാലയിൽ കോർത്തെടുത്ത നിന്റെ ഹൃദയമിടിപ്പുകൾ നെഞ്ചിലേറ്റിയ കാലം.

കുരുകുലവും കുരുക്ഷേത്രവും ശൂന്യമായിരിക്കുന്നു… ഗാന്ധാരി ശാപവും പേറി വേടന്റെ ശരവും കാത്തു കിടക്കുമ്പോൾ, നിന്നിലേക്കുള്ള ദൂരം ദ്വാപരത്തിൽ നിന്ന് കലിയുഗത്തിലേക്കുള്ളതാണ് എന്ന തിരിച്ചറിവ് പാദത്തിലേറ്റെക്കാവുന്ന മുറിവിനേക്കാൾ വേദനാജനകം ആണ്. പ്രാണൻ എപ്പോഴേ പോയിരിക്കുന്നു! എന്റെ ലോകം നീയും നിന്റെ ലോകം ഞാനും മറന്നു തുടങ്ങിയിരിക്കുന്നു!

– ശ്രീ (കൃഷ്‌ണൻ)

Kerala Style Spicy Dry Roasted Chicken / നാടൻ കോഴി പെരട്ട് – Simple Subin

(Simple is an IT professional residing in Powell with her husband Subin and two children, Kevin and Trisha. She enjoys cooking and likes to experiment with new recipes. She loves traveling with her family, watching Bollywood movies, and loves spending time with her friends.)

Treat yourself to an authentic Kerala Style Spicy Dry Roasted Chicken / നാടൻ കോഴി പെരട്ട്. This recipe serves about 6 people. The naadan roast pairs very well with rice, Malabar paratha, or roti.

Ingredients

  • 3 lb cut chicken, medium size pieces
  • 3 big onions (thinly sliced)
  • 3 green chilies (slit)
  • 2 tbsp chopped ginger
  • 2 tbsp chopped garlic
  • 3 tomatoes (chopped)
  • 1 tsp turmeric powder
  • 2 tbsp red chili powder
  • 2 tbsp coriander powder
  • 1 tbsp pepper powder
  • 1 tbsp garam masala
  • ½ tbsp cumin powder
  • 3+1 sprigs of curry leaves
  • salt – as required
  • oil – as required (I prefer to use coconut oil)

Instructions

Heat some oil in a pan over medium heat and once it is hot, add the chopped ginger and garlic to the pan and fry it for a minute or two so that the raw smell is gone. Make sure to not burn them in the process. Add the tomatoes and a sprig of curry leaves and cook it till the tomatoes become soft and mushy.

Reduce the heat to low and add turmeric powder, chili powder, coriander powder, and cumin powder. Roast them on low heat till the raw smell is gone while making sure to not burn the spice powders. Add the chicken pieces, salt to taste, and ¾ cup of water. Mix it well so that it is combined. Cook the chicken on medium heat and once the water/gravy has reduced to a thick sauce texture, turn off the heat.

Meanwhile in another pan, heat oil. Add curry leaves, sliced onions, green chilies and a little salt. Sauté until onions become translucent and golden brown. Now transfer the cooked chicken to the pan, add the rest of the sprigs of fresh curry leaves, sauté well to mix the chicken and the onions properly, and cook for another 3-5 minutes with the lid on.

Lower the heat, remove the lid, add pepper and garam masala and dry roast the chicken for another 10 minutes until all the liquid is dried out and the chicken is coated well with the masala. Garnish with curry leaves and allow it to rest for a few minutes.

Unniyappam / ഉണ്ണിയപ്പം – Sudeepa Pramod

(Sudeepa, a Columbus resident for over 15 years, is a software engineer and foodie who also loves to travel and cook. She lives with her husband and two teen daughters in Powell, OH)

“Unniyappam illade endu Vishu aghosham”. Here is a recipe for making soft and yummy unniyappams. I learnt this recipe from my mother and it has been a huge hit among my friends and family.

Ingredients

  • Raw Rice – 3 cups
  • Ripe Plantain (Nendra Pazham) – 2 nos
  • Jaggery – 10 to 12 cubes
  • Black Sesame Seeds – 2 tbsp
  • Coconut bits – 1 cup
  • Baking Soda – a pinch
  • Salt – a pinch
  • Cardamom Powder – a generous pinch
  • Oil (Canola or coconut oil) for frying
  • Unniyappa Chatti
  • Steamer or idli vessel for steaming the plantain

Preparation

Wash and soak the rice overnight or at least 5-6 hours. Drain the water and grind to a smooth paste.

Steam cook the plantain for 10-15 mins. Cooking time depends on how ripe the bananas are. The skin of the banana loosens once they are cooked and the bananas have turned soft. This is the indication that it’s done. Peel off the banana skin, grind the banana to a smooth paste, and add it to the rice batter.

Fry the coconut bits in a small amount of ghee and keep it aside.

Melt jaggery in 1 cup water, strain it, and mix with the rice/banana batter. Next, add cardamom powder, sesame seeds, fried coconut bits, salt, baking soda, and mix well. Batter should not be too thick or too thin. Add wheat flour (atta) if the batter is too thin, or add water if too thick.

Heat the unniyappa chatti, add a teaspoon of oil in each cavity. When the oil becomes hot, reduce the flame to medium and fill the cavities with batter. When the bottom starts browning, flip it over to the other side using a spoon. Once the other side turns golden brown, remove and drain on a kitchen towel. Repeat the same process for the rest of the batter. Soft Unniyappams are ready to be served.

Note: This recipe will make 50-60 medium sized appams.

Ernakulam style Chicken Biriyani (കോഴി ബിരിയാണി) – Shinimol Saidumuhamed

(Shinimol Saidumuhamed is a Quality Analyst by profession. She lives in Dublin, Ohio with her husband, Aslam, and their two children, Minha and Ayaan. Cooking has always been a passion of hers since childhood, inspired by watching her mom cook. In her early years of cooking, she was interested in making puddings, but after marrying Aslam (who is not into sweets), she stopped making them. Shini’s passion then turned to making Biryani and other spicy foods, which her husband, kids, and friends love.)

For me, cooking is a way to show love and bring people together. I believe that sharing a meal can create a sense of community and foster deeper connections between people. Whether I am whipping up a batch of my favorite Chicken Biryani for a family gathering or experimenting with a new fusion recipe for my friends, I approach cooking with passion, creativity, and a deep love for those around me.

Kerala is known for its wide variety of Biryanis. And it is important to note that there are different styles of Biryani in Kerala, each with its unique blend of spices and preparation techniques. For example, the Malabar Biryani from northern Kerala is made with short-grain rice, while the Thalassery Biryani is known for its fragrant rice and use of oil. The Kozhikode Biryani, on the other hand, is famous for its generous use of ghee and caramelized onions.

Despite the variations, one thing is certain: Biryani is a dish that is cherished and celebrated across Kerala, with each region adding its unique touch to this beloved dish.

As someone from Ernakulam, I would like to share the unique preparation method and ingredients we use to make Biryani in my hometown, which is distinct from other styles of Biryani in Kerala.

Note – this recipe serves three people.

Ingredients set 1 – Chicken marination for fry

  • Chicken – 600 gm, cut into pieces – almost 10 pieces (half of a chicken)
  • Ginger-Garlic paste – 1 Teaspoon
  • Turmeric powder – ¼ Teaspoon
  • Coriander powder – 1 Teaspoon
  • Chilli powder – 1 Teaspoon
  • Garam Masala powder (mix of cinnamon stick, cardamom, bay leaf, and cloves) – 1 Teaspoon
  • Salt – 1 Teaspoon
  • Lemon juice – 1 Teaspoon
  • Curd – 4 Tablespoons

Ingredient set 2 – Garnish

  • Red onion – 2 (medium size) / 250 gm, for onion deep fry. (You can get fried onions from any Indian grocer’s, so you can skip this process)
  • Ghee – 3 Tablespoon
  • Cashew nut – 1½ Tablespoon
  • Raisins – 1½ Tablespoon

Ingredient set 3 – Chicken masala

  • Refined Oil – 3 Tablespoons
  • Garam Masala powder (mix of cinnamon stick, cardamom, bay leaf, and cloves) – 1 Teaspoon
  • Red onion – 3 (medium size) / 300 gm
  • Ginger, Garlic and Green Chili paste – 2 Tablespoon
  • Salt – ½ Teaspoon
  • Chilli powder – ½ Teaspoon
  • Crushed Black Pepper- ½ Teaspoon
  • Turmeric powder – ½ Teaspoon
  • Hot water – ¾ Cup (180 ml)
  • Chopped tomatoes – 2
  • Curd – 1 Tablespoon

Ingredient set 4 – For cooking the rice

  • Basmati Rice or Jeerakasala Rice (Kaima) – 2 Cups (400 gm)
  • Water – 3¾ Cup
  • Bay leaf – 1
  • Cinnamon stick – 1½ Inch Piece
  • Cloves – 4
  • Cardamom – 2
  • Lime juice – ½ Teaspoon
  • Refined oil – 1 Tablespoon
  • Salt – 1 Teaspoon
  • Onion – ¼

Ingredient set 5 – For Dum

  • Mint leaves – ¾ Cup
  • Coriander leaves – a small bunch
  • Ghee – 2 Tablespoons

Ingredient set 6 – Toppings

  • Eggs – 2
  • Pineapple bits – a little
  • Saffron – 1 small pinch
  • Milk – 1 Tablespoon
  • Coriander leaves
  • Mint leaves

Preparation

Step 1 – Half fry the chicken – Use Ingredient set 1

In a mixing bowl, marinate the chicken with Ginger-Garlic paste, Turmeric powder, Coriander powder, Chili powder, Garam Masala powder, Salt, Lemon juice, and Curd. Set it aside for an hour in the fridge. After an hour, deep fry the chicken until half cooked, using refined oil, and keep it aside.

Step 2 – Fried garnish – Use Ingredient set 2

Add three to four tablespoons of ghee to a pan. Fry the cashews until lightly golden, then add the raisins. When they turn plump, transfer them to a plate.

In the same pan, add finely sliced onions and fry them until golden or light brown. (You can skip this step if you are using store bought fried onions). Set them aside along with the cashews and raisins for garnishing.

Step 3 – Chicken masala – Use Ingredient set 3

Heat oil in a pan (you can reuse the same oil used for frying the chicken). Add sliced onions and sauté until they are translucent. Add ginger, garlic, and chili paste, and sauté until their raw aroma dissipates. Add chopped tomatoes and sauté until the masala is cooked. Then, add turmeric powder, chili powder, pepper, and salt. Mix well.

Add the half-cooked fried chicken to the masala and mix well. Cook for ten minutes on low flame. Finally, add curd and sauté for two minutes. By the end of this step, the chicken and masala will have combined into a thick gravy.

Step 4 – Rice cooking – Use Ingredient set 4

In another pot, heat ghee and add the whole garam masala and thinly sliced onions. Sauté until onions are translucent. Add water and bring to a boil (for 1 cup of rice, take 1.75 cups of water). Add basmati rice to the boiling water and let it cook on low flame until the water is fully absorbed.

Step 5 – Dum, garnishing, and topping – Use Ingredient sets 5 and 6

For Dum, take a large pot and create layers by adding chicken masala at the bottom, followed by cooked rice, another layer of chicken masala, and some freshly chopped coriander and mint leaves. Add another layer of rice on top of the chicken masala. Garnish with fried onions, cashews, raisins, pineapple bits, and more chopped coriander and mint leaves.

Drizzle some ghee over the top. To give the Biryani a yellow color, mix saffron with hot milk and pour the mixture over the rice.

Cover the pot with a tight lid and cook on low flame for five minutes. Turn off the heat and leave the pot covered for another thirty minutes.

Step 6 – Boil eggs

Boil eggs in a pan.

The Biryani is ready. Enjoy this mouth-watering Biryani with your family and friends. Don’t forget to add a boiled egg on top of the served Biryani like in the picture.

Note: It will take approximately three hours to prepare this Biriyani if you follow all the steps. This includes the marination time.

COMA Meals on Wheels

COMA volunteers covered 7 routes in the first quarter of 2023. If you are interested in volunteering, please reach out to the EC team. Here’re the routes we covered this year.

  • March 26, 2023 Arun Kumar, Priya Arun, Aishwarya Arun, Adithya Arun
  • March 26, 2023 Kurian Uthup, Preetha Uthup, Keziah Uthup, Marissa Uthup, Hannah Uthup
  • March 12, 2023 Arun Kumar, Priya Arun, Aishwarya Arun, Adithya Arun
  • February 26, 2023 Remya Krishnan, Madhu Parameswaran, Sreya Madhu
  • February 12, 2023 Gayatri Thampy, Sumitra Thampy-Norton, Chris Norton
  • January 22, 2023 John Patrick, Anitha John, Stevie Rajesh, Dannie Rajesh
  • January 8, 2023 Joseph Abraham, Nancy Joseph, Joshua Abraham, Rachael Abraham

Upcoming COMA events

COMA is conducting a badminton tournament in April, and the event is open to both members and non-members. Details will be announced soon on the COMA website.

COMA Badminton 2023

Newsletter March 2023

Smitha Nishant

For Malayalees who grew up in Kerala, March brings back bucket-loads of childhood memories. Among those, the much dreaded final examinations and the much awaited end of school year, the beginning of venalavadhi, and the ushering in of our very own March Madness – the nostalgic maambazhakkaalam.

March in the United States is the start of longer and warmer days. With spring breaks for schools and colleges, parents and children begin to realize the end of academic year is nearing. For families who are planning on spring break vacations, I hope you enjoy a carefree and relaxed schedule and come back refreshed and renewed!

COMA has been supporting the Meals on Wheels program for several years now, helping with their mission to deliver meals and friendly greetings to homebound seniors. Gayatri Thampy, one of our volunteers, has very graciously contributed a detailed writeup of her experience. If you were curious about what is involved in Meals on Wheels volunteering, her writeup gives you every little detail you will ever need to know.

I hope all of our families have a safe and relaxing time during the upcoming spring break. For my friends who are observing Lent or Ramadan, I wish you all a blessed and fulfilling fasting season.

Sreejith Chandran

Sreejith Chandran’s Random Ramblings

(One half of his brain has gone nomad and the other has gone in search of the first. Glorifying his random ramblings and packaging it is his main hobby! Otherwise sane and grounded.)

എന്തിനോ വേണ്ടി തിളയ്ക്കുന്ന സാമ്പാർ

പിന്നിട്ടവഴികളിലൂടെ തിരിച്ചുപോകുമ്പോൾ …
പുനർജനിക്കുന്ന പുൽക്കൊടികൾ …
വീണ്ടും വിരിയുന്ന പൂക്കൾ …
പതിയെ തളിർക്കുന്ന ഇലകൾ…
പറയാൻ മറന്ന വാക്കുകൾ…
നിസ്സംഗമായ നിന്റെ മന്ദഹാസം ….
നഷ്ടസ്വപ്നങ്ങൾ …
ഒരു ജന്മത്തിന്റെ കാത്തിരുപ്പു …
വരുമോ നിന്റെ നിശ്വാസം.

Volunteering for Meals on Wheels – Gayatri Thampy

(Dr. Gayatri Thampy is a former economic anthropologist and taught at Denison university until 2020.)

My family and I decided to volunteer for Meals on Wheels after Nish Nishant created a WhatsApp group to organize volunteers. Our daughter Sumitra needed volunteer hours for her school service record. We thought this would be a great opportunity to cover this school requirement.

We drove our first route on 25th of December, 2022. It took about 4.5 hours as the weather and driving conditions were really bad. Because of our experience in December, we decided to volunteer again in February. This time, it only took about 3.5 hours.

The task is quite simple. COMA delivers Meals on Wheels two Sundays per month. The volunteering family goes to the Meals on Wheels pick-up location at 670 Harmon Ave around 10:30 am. You drive into the farther parking lot and pick up a folder that lists your route number. Inside this folder, you will find sheets with addresses of the clients, along with details of meals each client is supposed to get. You then pick up two cases that have the same route number listed on them. One of them contains hot lunches and the other contains cold lunches, snacks, juice, and milk. These cases easily fit into the trunk of a sedan. It is a good idea to do a quick count of the lunches, juices, and milk and make sure they tally with what you expect based on your list. Both the times we volunteered, we found that there was a mismatch.

Now, you follow the order of the list from the beginning and drive to the corresponding addresses and deliver the appropriate items. Make sure you knock loudly and wait for 5-7 minutes as many individuals have mobility and hearing issues. If no one comes to the door, try to call the listed phone number. If no one answers, mark the entry as “undelivered”. You will need to fill out an online form at the end of your route for these individuals.

Deliveries may be to houses or to apartments. If the door was visible from our car, we allowed our kids to deliver to the house. For apartments, we went in with one of the kids. In some cases, either my husband or I delivered to an apartment. At the end of the route, you return the cases and folder back to the MoW location. I recommend taking some snacks and drinks along with you in case you get hungry or tired. You may need to use nearby gas stations if kids need a bathroom break.

This was an eye-opening experience. Most of the individuals in both our routes were white. I had read and watched documentaries about white poverty in USA. This was the first time I confronted it. Some of the cold lunches we delivered only had a couple of slices of bread and some cheese in it. We were astonished by this, but realized that basic groceries like a loaf of bread and bags of cheese were inaccessible to many people. Due to the nature of urban development and dominance of cars for transportation, these areas are food deserts for people who are poor, unwell, and living alone.

People in apartments seemed worse off than those in houses. In some apartments, the building windows were broken and was covered with a thin sheet of plastic wrap. The inside of some of the buildings were dank and dark, and several apartments had eviction notices posted on the doors. Note that the temperatures in December were less than 5 degrees with strong winds.

I felt that more than volunteer hours, it was really important for our kids to understand their privileges and be exposed to the lives of less fortunate people. Volunteering for Meals on Wheels helped them become curious about the causes of such poverty and isolation in our society. They now avidly watch John Oliver’s segments on various issues in “Last Week Tonight” and express an interest in reading more about some of these topics. After covering our routes, I decided to research this program a bit more.

Meals on Wheels is a program based on public-private partnership. It is designed to deliver meals to senior individuals who are unable to purchase or prepare their own meals. It is largely funded through community contributions, though it does receive some federal support through the Older Americans Act Nutrition Program of 1972, Medicaid, and USDA grants. They sometimes also commission studies on hunger and other needs among seniors.

According to these studies, before the pandemic, 9.7 million seniors were threatened by hunger and 25% of seniors lived alone. A volunteer delivering a meal is often the only person an individual in this program may see over the course of the day. Thus, a Meals on Wheels volunteer does the added function of serving as a wellness check on a senior and alerting the organization if they were unable to deliver the meal to the person. So this program also helps reduce the public costs of hospitalizations from falls and illnesses.

In 2017, federal funding for the program was cut by 1.5 million dollars and the Community Services, Community Development and Social Services Block Grants, upon which some Meals on Wheels programs rely for funding were also eliminated. It is therefore imperative to support this program through volunteering and donations. If you are undecided about whether this activity is for you and your family, I recommend riding along with a volunteer family so you can see for yourself what it’s like. It is a small time commitment, without much strenuous physical activity, and you would be contributing to making our society caring and compassionate.

My experience travelling with Tuskers – Anoop Nair

(Anoop Nair is a Software Engineer living in Delaware Ohio. He loves to scribble, paint, and travel when he is away from coding. Following cricket and experimenting with his culinary skills are other pastimes.)

One fine evening during a fireside chat, after being a little jingled, Pradeesh told me about Columbus Tuskers travelling to Miami, Florida for their next Malayalee Soccer league. He casually asked me if I am interested to join them, of course only to cheer and support. My first reaction was “what the heck will I be doing there; I am nowhere into soccer”? But then for a moment, I was carried away by thoughts of sunshine, beaches and delicious sea food (touchings), away from the pesters of gloomy Ohioan winter and most importantly with no strings attached. When I told my wife about this conversation I had with Pradeesh, to my surprise she told me I should go (I saw in her eyes as if she is getting a blank cheque to be cashed later). Whatever it be, I booked my airplane tickets along with other folks. Team’s itinerary was – A day of soccer (leagues, knockouts and the finale) and a day and half to recover (don’t think too much into the recovery, poor guys are fighting out the scorching heat of Miami!).

It is the day of travel and my phone hooted at 3 AM (economic flights always come with a price), got dressed up and reached the CMH airport. Met other team members of Columbus Tuskers, led by our own dynamic president Shibu Nair. Most of them were familiar faces in COMA, except for couple of guys whom I was meeting for the first time. All of them ardent lovers of soccer and passionate for playing. Their body language, enthusiasm and zeal said it all. I forgot to mention that there were couple of other guys too travelling with the team like I was, to cheer and boost. The excitement started building up and I recollected my last guys-only trip I had with a such big group – may be in my college! Huh!!

After exchanging all pleasantries, Tuskers flew out of Columbus and landed in Orlando. We took some pictures with the cabin crew and went to rent the cars (thanks to Aslam Ikka, preferred customer of Avis for taking care of all bookings even though wait time for the preferred customer was more than the flight time to Orlando). Finally, we drove to Miami and checked into an Airbnb property. It was a decent house that could accommodate all 15 of us, with a beautiful patio looking into a sprawling swimming pool. For a moment, it felt like I landed in Kerala – warm and beautiful weather, Palm and Coconut trees lining the horizon, Mango trees in the backyard adorned in their flowers and all tropical fauna you habitually see in Kerala.

After sprucing up into their summer attire, Tuskers headed for some game day eve practice. As the team was busy fine tuning their skills, we cheerleaders slugged some drinks. It is truly an amazing mood gulping some cold beer in the month of February roaming around in your shorts – something you can just dream about in Columbus. But hats off to the dedication and passion of Tuskers for restraining themselves and just focusing and thinking about the game next day. They were engaged in making game plans and strategies, rectifying mistakes, helping each other in correcting their game, practicing their shots and what not. I was completely moved by their sincerity and devotion for the game.

It’s the Game Day! Guys woke up as early as 5 AM and geared up for the D-day, adorned in their Tuskers yellow and black jerseys. We reached Flamingo Park, Cooper City where 12 Malayalee teams from different parts of the US had assembled to fight for the MASC (Malayalee Arts and Sports Club) Miami Soccer trophy. What a festive atmosphere it was; like an Ulsavam (temple fest) back in Kerala. The hospitality by MASC Miami was paramount. Boiled organic Kozhi Mutta and Tharavu Mutta straight from the MASC president’s farm were the highlights of the breakfast.

Getting into the game, Tuskers were facing the hosts, MASC Miami, in the event opener. Our boys were keen to conquer the home team and announce their arrival to the other soccer giants of US Malayalee leagues. Being an early morning game, we were surprised to see a lot of dew. Ref blew his whistle, and the ball was set into motion. The game progressed and soon our striker Subash struck the first goal of the tournament. It was a moment in the tournament, and I must admire MASC commentators for their superb Malayalam commentary laced with all kinds of wits and humors throughout the tournament. Though Tuskers had an initial lead, there seemed to be a lack of coordination and communication between the players which was quite evident. Wet ground was certainly a factor resulting in some misjudgments. Soon the home team struck back, and we lost our lead, but somehow, we did manage to score a second goal and maintain the lead. It was just 20 seconds for the final hooter and some of us among the spectators had already started blowing the victory bugle. Alas, Miami scored an equalizer! Tuskers had to settle for a draw against the home team who were never at par with us. We could see a lull in our side, dropped shoulders and agony on their faces summed it up.

Soon, Tuskers were back to the strategy table analyzing what went wrong and how they can do better; after all it was not a defeat, and the first game is always a lesson in learning. Luckily, we had a break of 3 hours before our next group game and that was enough to rejuvenate and revive. On the other side, more group games were in progress, I was thrilled to see some fantastic game of soccer by teams like New York, Philly, Atlanta etc. while I was scouting around. Florida sun was now sweltering, and we could see other teams getting tired out, cramping and all. Hydration was the mantra and again MASC had done a great job with supplying more than adequate water and other sports drinks to all teams. Me and my fellow spectators ensured we too kept ourselves hydrated and chilled with some beer and cocktails in our car bar. Meanwhile, in the other group match Miami was thrashed by Minnal Charlotte 5-2 and the Tuskers were next up against Minnals on a turf blistered by the noon sun.

Tuskers were now facing an upbeat Minnals, there was a better coordination between our players this time and within 10 minutes into the play, we were able to draw first blood with a superb strike by Geeno. We maintained our lead until after the half time but were equalized by Minnals in the second half. The equation was simple – a draw or a win will take us to the Quarter Finals and our defenders stood like a wall. Game had moved into its final minute when Basil Jacob hit the ball into the top left corner of Minnals’ post from a lobbied corner kick, giving Tuskers their first victory. It was not just a victory for Tuskers, they emerged as the group toppers. That was a terrific game with a right finishing touch, helping Tuskers to get back into their rhythm.

Mood was high and lively in our camp, and we had a sumptuous lunch provided by MASC. The overall event management by MASC was commendable – from the grand opening ceremony by the city mayor to the food, the medical services, timeliness and the closing ceremony – everything was well planned.

Tuskers moved into their Quarterfinal battle against Houston United, who were a reputed side playing as an organized team for the last 10 years in various US leagues. We could now feel the heat on the field and of course Florida’s sun triggering frequent dehydration and cramps to our players. Houston had a tough goalkeeper taking down all chances that our strikers fancied. Tuskers fought their heart out and our defenders along with the Goalkeeper Anil sealed our post and we ended up with a goal-less draw. The game moved into a penalty shootout, which was a first for the tournament and attracted a lot of spectators. Soon, 5 strikers lined up from each team ready to take a hit on the post. Houston with their super skilled goalie had an upper hand and were the favorites. The first bout of 5 penalty shoots ended in 3-3, thanks to a flying save by our goalie Anil. It looked like neither team was ready to budge. Another set of 3 penalty shoots began and the final shot by a Houston player went over the post and we stormed into the semifinal. By the end of this game, Tuskers who looked rookie in their opening game were posing serious threats to some of the Malayalee soccer giants. They were thrilled but at the same time remained calm and composed for the semifinal.

Tuskers entered their semifinal bout against Arsenal Philadelphia who were a much younger side and had already stamped their authority in the tournament by thrashing their opponents by huge margins in group stages and Quarters. Apart from young legs, they seemed to be a bit rough too and as a result we were soon at the receiving end of a tough penalty call by the ref which was a surprise to the opponents too. They converted the penalty and took a lead. It was a fiery game, and we were at the receiving end again with another penalty which was nicely saved by our goalie. Our players started getting cramps and medical staff were frequently seen on the field. Battling all odds, our striker Geeno breached Philly’s defense and levelled the scores, but he himself went down with a muscle cramp. There were some intense battles of shots before Philly struck again, taking a lead and eventually Tuskers went down 2-1 fighting valiantly. We lost the semifinal, but the effort we put in, the coordination and skill we displayed were supreme.

We stayed up in the park to watch the thrilling Finale between the defending champions New York and Arsenal Philadelphia. Eventually New York were crowned as the champions yet again. MASC put a tremendous effort organizing this event and it was nothing less than a pooram with a festive Malayali atmosphere and Chendamelam.

Next day and a half were a much-needed break for the team when we all enjoyed some wonderful time together exploring beaches, sunshine and cocktails before boarding back to reality in Columbus!

Columbus Tuskers is not just a soccer team, it’s a bonding of individuals playing out their passion, displaying dedication and sincerity on the field, and outside of the field they are a bunch of jovial, fun loving, buoyant individuals with never ending jokes and banters, who are the best to hang out with. I thoroughly enjoyed this trip with Tuskers and wish them success in all their future leagues!

Member Achievements and Milestones

Dr. Soumya Mary Kurian

Congratulations to Dr. Soumya Mary Kurian for earning her doctorate in Nursing Practice from Indiana State University, Terre Haute, IN.

Dr. Kurian has been practicing as a Nurse Practitioner in an outpatient opioid treatment clinic for over six years. She started her career as a registered nurse . She immigrated to United States in 2005. She earned her Masters in Nursing from Indiana State University, and is board certified as a Family Nurse Practitioner by the American Association of Nurse Practitioners. She is also certified through SAMHSA to provide substance use disorder treatment. She completed her BSN degree from MG University, Kerala.

While working as a nurse practitioner at an urgent care clinic in Mansfield, she discovered that her true passion is to fight the opioid crisis, and to serve a population that is so vulnerable to opioid misuse and risk for overdose related mortality. Opioid overdose epidemic is a public health concern. Her Doctoral dissertation was titled “Overdose Response Education and Take- Home Naloxone“. The objective of this project was to analyze the effectiveness of overdose response education and distributed take-home naloxone kits on improving knowledge and attitude among opioid dependent individuals towards the utilization of Naloxone while witnessing opioid overdoses.

She finds great satisfaction in serving patients with substance use disorders and leading them to a path of recovery. Her interests include eliminating the stigma of addiction, and raising awareness that drug addiction is not a moral issue and rather a chronic disease of the brain causing impairment in judgment.

Dr. Kurian is a resident of Powell, and lives with her husband Anup Kurian and their two sons Alex and Ben.

Vindhya Cultural Association – Karaoke Competition 2023

Vindhya Cultural Association conducted their annual Karaoke Competition on March 4th Saturday at the McConnell Arts Center in Worthington, Ohio. COMA members won the top prizes in the adult and junior competitions.

Ravi Hariharan and Ramya Janaki won the first prize for their beautiful rendition of Tu Hi Re from the movie Bombay, composed by A.R.Rahman. Arun Davis and Anup Kurian won the second prize for their energetic rendition of Raja Raja Sozhan from the movie Rettai Vaal Kuruvi, composed by Maestro Ilaiyaraaja. COMA youth members Shreya Girish and Sahana Ravi won the first prize in the junior competition, for singing Kannodu Kaanbadhellam from the movie Jeans (music by A.R.Rahman). This is a very proud moment for COMA Malayalees and lovers of karaoke singing!

There was a grand finale band performance directed by COMA’s very own musical virtuoso Lloyd George, which included four young members from COMA – Aanjali Maria John (vocals), Alex Kurian (guitar), Ben Kurian (keyboard), and Rohan Nishant (drums). They were supported by their friends from outside COMA – Prateek Kunchala (viola) and Arnav Edamadaka (saxophone and backing vocals).

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Newsletter February 2023

Smitha Nishant

More than a month has already passed since the new year! February is all about celebrating love in all its forms – romantic, familial, friendships, and even radical self-love. Some of my best Valentine’s Day memories are of getting hand made cards from my son during his kindergarten years. Whether your plans for Valentine’s Day include a romantic night out with your partner, or cooking a nice meal for your family, I recommend taking the opportunity to show appreciation for all the love you are blessed to have in your life.

I hope you did not miss the COMA February event with the indoor games and the evening entertainment. The event was a grand success, and a huge thanks to the executive committee for organizing such a memorable experience for everyone. They have set a new standard for COMA events and I can’t wait for the next one. Special shout out to Pradeesh Puthiyattil for his bold and groundbreaking idea of hosting a stand-up show and for uncovering hidden talents from our Malayalee friends. A big round of applause to all the comedians who performed like pros despite this being their debuts, and I hope this is only a step towards bigger and better performances. Job well done to the young musicians in the Coconut Trio band who supported the stand-up and party game events. Congratulations to all the winners, and best wishes to everyone else who participated for next time.

In this edition, we are introducing member contributions. If you would like to submit content for future editions, please reach out to the EC team (coma.officials@gmail.com). Content should be 250 words or less.

I would like to gently remind everyone that February is also American Heart Month. Love your heart, make healthy choices, and stay protected!

Smitha Nishant

Diplomas and more – Aadhira Pramod

Aadhira

(Aadhira is the daughter of Priya and Pramod Pudhiyattil. She is a neuroscience graduate from UC and her interests include writing and traveling.)

Well, mom and dad, I just graduated from college. I’m a new grad all over again. Crazy, right? I can go around saying I have a bachelors now. I got a physical copy of my diploma a couple days back and every time I pass it as it sits on my dressing table, I am still marveled by the fact that the 4 years passed by. I’m in the midst of applying again, but this time I’m applying to graduate schools and let me tell you, I don’t miss it at all. I forgot what it was like to write essays that sum up your whole personality in 800 words. I also forgot what it was like to wait for your dream school to let you know if you got in or not. However, one thing that is different this time around is that I have in-person interviews which is something that I have been struggling with considering how much I dread interviews.

Other than graduate school applications, I have got to say I am enjoying the post grad life – I am back in the city of Columbus, sitting on kitchen countertops as I complain to my mom about pretty much anything life related, going on Costco trips with my dad, and dealing with my brother’s mood swings. Also, I finally got a job after consistently applying which is how I pass most of my time. My 12-hour shifts consist of seeing patients of all ages, taking their vitals, running tests on them if they need it, and sending out their labs. On the days I don’t work long hours, you can find me on the couch reading and listening to music. One of my new year resolutions this year was to write more. I lost touch with writing for a bit while in college but it’s nice to get back into the rhythm of it and thanks to Smitha aunty, I was able to write to you guys for this month’s edition of the newsletter.

That pretty much sums up my whole life as a new graduate. While it may not be the typical route one takes right after graduating from undergrad, it’s nice to take a break and see where life takes you. So, yeah, I may not have my life completely planned out, but that’s okay. In fact, now that I had the time to see my career goals in a different light, I feel more passionate about pursuing my desired career path. With that being said, I’m excited to see what this year will bring. Hopefully, an acceptance letter.

I hope the new year is good to all of you!

Sreejith Chandran’s Random Ramblings

Sreejith Chandran

(One half of his brain has gone nomad and the other has gone in search of the first. Glorifying his random ramblings and packaging it is his main hobby! Otherwise sane and grounded.)

മൂഞ്ചിയ പ്രണയങ്ങൾ (1)

അടുത്ത ജന്മത്തിൽ ഞാൻ നിനക്ക് സ്വന്തം എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു അവൾ നടന്നു നീങ്ങി. . . ആ ക്ഷണം മരിച്ചു പുനർജനിച്ചാലോ എന്നാലോചിച്ചു നിൽക്കുമ്പോൾ തലേന്ന് നിലവിളക്കു കൊളുത്തിയിട്ടു അമ്മ പറഞ്ഞതോർമ്മ വന്നു. . . ഇനിയുള്ള ജന്മങ്ങൾ നായായും നരിയായും ആണ് പോലും. . . !! നാൽക്കാലി പ്രണയം ഓർത്തു ചിരിവന്നു, ശിഷ്ടകാലമെങ്കിലും ഒരു നല്ല മനുഷ്യനായി ജീവിക്കാമെന്ന് തീരുമാനിച്ചു, അടുത്ത ബീവറേജസിലോട്ട് വെച്ച് പിടിച്ചു!!

മൂഞ്ചിയ പ്രണയങ്ങൾ (2)

ഏറെക്കൊതിച്ചൊരീ യാത്രയിലിന്നെന്റെ,
തോളോട് ചേർന്നു നീ ഇല്ല…
നിൻ മൃദു സ്പർശനം തേടിയലഞ്ഞൊരെൻ
വിരലുകൾ നിന്നിലേക്കെത്തിയില്ല…
ആ മരത്തണലിൽ വെറുതെയിരിക്കുമ്പോൾ
നെറുകയിൽ നിൻചുടു നിശ്വാസമില്ല…

ചിത്രങ്ങൾ മാഞ്ഞൊരാ പുസ്തകത്താളുകളിൽ
നിൻപ്രണയ കുറിപ്പുകളില്ല…
പാതി മുറിച്ചൊരാ ചിത്രത്തിന്നൊരുപാതി
നെഞ്ചോടു ചേർത്തുഞാൻ നിന്നു…

നിന്റെ തൊടിയിൽ കൊഴിഞ്ഞുവീണൊരാ
ചെമ്പകപ്പൂക്കളാണു ഞാൻ…
പാദങ്ങൾക്കടിയിൽ ഞെരിഞ്ഞമർന്നാലും,
വേദനിപ്പിക്കില്ലൊരിക്കലും, പ്രണയമേ…

What I believe in – Deepa Menon

Deepa Menon

(Deepa Menon among her friends and family is best known for someone who is always living on the edge, loves travel, adventure sports, trekking, and diving (underwater and sky). On a sunny nice day she can be found hiking, and is always working on her next bucket list item.)

Motivation and Inspiration are two sides of the same coin. Motivation involves outside forces whereas inspiration comes from within. We can be motivated by a motivational speaker, but that doesn’t last long, however when we are inspired by something or someone, that stays within for a longer time.

The three things that have inspired me and have always worked for me are:

  • “The Alchemist’s Law”
  • “What you will, shall come to you”
  • “Embracing shades of gray”

“The Alchemist’s Law” is a reference to Paulo Coelho’s novel “The Alchemist”. The novel follows the journey of Santiago, a shepherd boy, who sets out on a quest to fulfill his personal legend, or life’s purpose. Throughout the journey, Santiago encounters several obstacles, but he is guided by a series of universal laws, and the most important law of all, is: “When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” It’s easier said than done, the point here is, even for the universe to conspire to help you with something, first, you need that desire, want, or self-drive to achieve it. Setting goals or wanting to come out of a difficult situation is easy, but then the constant push and struggle to make the “desire” to “reality” will be the true test.

Similarly, the phrase “What you will, shall come to you” suggests that our thoughts, desires, and intentions have a powerful impact on our lives. It suggests that the universe responds to our will and helps us manifest our deepest desires if they are in alignment with our true selves and our life’s purpose. The idea is that if we focus our thoughts and actions on what we want, we can create positive outcomes and attract abundance and joy into our lives. However, it’s important to keep in mind that manifestation is not just about positive thinking, but also about taking inspired action and being open to opportunities as they arise. The idea is to align your will with the flow of the universe and trust that what you truly desire will come to you in due time.

The last and my favorite one is, “Living positively and embracing shades of gray”. Life is never black or white, or for the computer geeks, it’s not always 1 or 0. We need to be finding joy, gratitude, and meaning in life while also recognizing that not everything is simple or easily classified as good or bad, right or wrong. This approach involves being open to multiple perspectives, embracing ambiguity, and striving for balance and understanding, rather than rigidly adhering to black and white thinking.

I feel that by combining a positive outlook, and embracing grey with a nuanced and inclusive perspective, one can lead a more fulfilling and meaningful life. I always believe!

COMA Meals on Wheels program

If you would like to sign up for the Meals on Wheels program (2nd and 4th Sundays of each month), please join this WhatsApp group. When joining, please announce yourself as not everyone may have your number in their contacts.

Event Gallery

Here are some photos from the COMA Valentine’s Day 2023 event. Click on an image to see the full size version.

Photo Credits : Mekha Aravind

Event Videos

If you missed out the online cook-along session with chefs Pradip Ramachandran and Anjana Nair, you can watch the recording here.

Here are the videos from the COMA Valentine’s Day event.

Thank You from the EC Team

Dear COMA Patrons,

We wanted to take a moment to express our sincere gratitude for all the hard work and dedication that went into making our Valentine’s Day show such a tremendous success. Your unwavering commitment to excellence was truly inspiring and helped to create an unforgettable experience for all those in attendance.

Whether you were responsible for organizing the event, managing the logistics, or volunteering your time and talents to ensure everything ran smoothly, your contributions were truly invaluable. Your passion and enthusiasm were evident in every aspect of the show, and it was a privilege to witness your hard work come to fruition.

So, from the bottom of our heart, thank you for all the great work. Special mention to Mekha, Pramod, Anoop, Linda, Lisa, Arun Chand, all the standup performers, the Coconut Trio band, and all the early birds who helped with decorations.

Thank you.
2023 Executive Committee

Newsletter January 2023

Welcome to 2023! I hope everyone enjoyed holiday celebrations with family and friends. As I reflect on 2022, I feel grateful for all the fun experiences COMA created for all of us. It was incredible to watch the outpouring of participation and support from our community in COMA events, and it was pure joy to observe the remarkable growth our organization has achieved in recent years.

This year’s Executive Committee is already busy at work, planning for some great things for us. Our 2023 President Shibu Nair has shared below his vision for our organization this year.

As we enter the new year with renewed hopes and plans, I am looking forward to a new year of continued community service, lasting memories, new friendships, fun celebrations, and most of all, the connection that we make with each other. Let’s make 2023 our best year yet.

Wishing everyone a happy and successful new year!

Smitha Nishant

Presidential Address – Shibu Nair

I am happy to take up this second stint in the COMA Executive Committee in 2023. I feel it is a much-needed give-back to the Malayalee community in Columbus that has been a significant part of my immigrant Malayalee life in the United States, my home away from home. I am very excited to share that my team has a myriad of events and ideas planned for this year.

In addition to bringing you cultural, sport, and entertainment events, my team would like to take the opportunity to reassess COMA as a cultural organization, the values we uphold and its relevance to the Columbus Malayalee diaspora. We have made leaps and bounds since our formative years. However, as an organization, there is room for further growth, including but not limited to better managing the upkeep of our organization’s assets, promoting youth member participation, enhanced use of our website and social media presence to better engage and communicate with our members. A lot of thought is being put on those lines and you will see some major steps being initiated on these fronts.

Coming back to the planned events this year, in addition to our annual Picnic, Onam, and Christmas events, we plan to have a Valentine’s Day event and several sporting tournaments (Cricket, Soccer, Shuttle Badminton, also involving other Indian association members). Weather permitting, we plan to have an outdoor entertainment event as well. Also in the works are the development of communities for outdoor activities such as hiking and biking.

We hope to seed initiatives that the community can take advantage of not just this year but in the coming years too. I trust that each and every one of you will support us in achieving our goals as one big family. I wish you all a happy, prosperous, and healthy 2023.

Know your EC Team

All of our Executive Committee members have been associated with COMA for the past several years and hardly need an introduction. Here is some fun trivia they shared with me that highlights how we are all in for a fun ride with them this year.

LocationPowell
HometownTrivandrum
Years in Columbus12
Favorite snackCrispy Parippu Vada
Favorite songAnagha Sankalpa Gaayike (Movie: Aniyara)
Favorite TV showFriends
Favorite movie punch lineNee thankappan alleda  ponnappananu, ponnappan
  • As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
    • Pilot, maybe?
  • If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
    • Madagascar.
  • What would your superhero power be?
    • Of course, fly!
  • If you could meet anyone, who would you meet?
    • Sabu bro.
  • What will people say at your funeral?
    • Eda bhayangara!
  • What’s something you think everyone should try at least once?
    • Have a dog at home.
LocationDublin
HometownKalady, Ernakulam
Years in Columbus13
Favorite snackPazham Pori
Favorite songThaniye mizhikal (Movie: Guppy)
Favorite TV showMaanasaputhri
Favorite movie punch lineIppo shariyaakki tharaam
  • As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
    • Vice president of a malayalee samajam.
  • If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
    • Kalady.
  • What would your superhero power be?
    • Teleportation.
  • If you could meet anyone, who would you meet?
    • Tutankhamun.
  • What will people say at your funeral?
    • Nalla oru manushyan aayirunnu.
  • What’s something you think everyone should try at least once?
    • Touch your nose with your tongue.
LocationDelaware
HometownChennai, Tamil Nadu
Years in Columbus13+
Favorite snackMasala Peanuts and Kerala Mixture
Favorite songPudhu Vellai Mazhai (Movie: Roja)
Favorite TV showComedy Utsavam (Flowers TV)
Favorite movie punch lineKedaikarthu Kedaikama Irukathu; Kedaikama Irukardhu Kedaikaathu (Superstar dialog)
  • As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
    • To play for the Indian Cricket team as a batting all-rounder.
  • If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
    • New Zealand.
  • What would your superhero power be?
    • Power to save people on earth from evil elements.
  • If you could meet anyone, who would you meet?
    • Lalettan and MS Dhoni.
  • What will people say at your funeral?
    • I lost my honest and great friend.
  • What’s something you think everyone should try at least once?
    • Watch World Cup Soccer live from the stadium.
LocationGalena
HometownKannur
Years in Columbus11
Favorite snackPazham Pori / Kallumakai Kadukka
Favorite songDevanganangal kayyozhinja tharakam (Movie: Njan Gandharvan)
Favorite TV showMalgudi Days
Favorite movie punch lineEda Dasaa, ethaa ee alavalathy?
  • As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
    • Bus-ile kili.
  • If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
    • Bangalore of late 90’s.
  • What would your superhero power be?
    • Swap all the healthy food to unhealthy and all unhealthy food to healthy.
  • If you could meet anyone, who would you meet?
    • Vaikom Muhammad Basheer.
  • What will people say at your funeral?
    • Kidakkana kidappu kanda? Emathiri veruppikkalayirunnu!
  • What’s something you think everyone should try at least once? 
    • Take a year’s break from work and do things for which you didn’t have time for.
LocationDublin
HometownKochi
Years in Columbus12
Favorite snackParippuvada
Favorite songBillie Jean
Favorite TV showMalgudi Days
Favorite movie punch lineNamuk oro naranga vellam angu kachiyalo?
  • As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
    • Pilot.
  • If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
    • Kochi.
  • What would your superhero power be?
    • Superman.
  • If you could meet anyone, who would you meet?
    • Family and friends, but if someone famous, maybe Sashi Tharoor.
  • What will people say at your funeral?
    • Kurachukoodi nerathe avaayirunnu!!!
  • What’s something you think everyone should try at least once?
    • Don’t plan your vacation, just hit the road.

Save the dates

Here is a preliminary list of events being planned this year and their dates. Mark your calendars so you don’t miss any.

  • Feb 11 – “Thuruppu Gulan” cards tournament and Valentine’s Day celebrations.
  • Apr 22 – Shuttle Badminton tournament.
  • May 20 – Cricket tournament.
  • June 18 – Outdoor Gaanamela (Franco).
  • July 4 – COMA Float for FIA.
  • July 22 – Annual Picnic: Vinodayathra, Vallamkali, Idli eating competition, and other fun events.
  • Sep 9 – Onam (with Shingari melam and onsite live cooking).
  • Sep 30 / Oct 7 – Soccer tournament.
  • Dec 2 – Christmas.

We have more activities where dates are not finalized so stay tuned for more information:

  • Live cooking sessions (multiple, including one with chef Suresh Pillai)
  • Bicycle Challenge – TBD
  • Trekking Challenge – TBD

Youth club activities

The COMA Youth Club will be conducting monthly meet ups. Plans are underway for TV station visits, OSU airport tower visit, fire-station visit, and camp-outs as well as charitable events including cloth drives and blood donation drives.

Membership

January is a great time to take your COMA Membership if you haven’t already. The current membership for 2022 will be valid until June 30th, 2023.

Membership benefits include:

  • Early access to event tickets
  • Discounted tickets for regular COMA events

Also, certain benefits are exclusive to COMA members:

  • Malayalam class for adults and kids
  • Opportunity to participate in charity/volunteering events
  • Access for your children to COMA Youth Wing

You can purchase Membership here: https://www.comaohio.org/membership-account/membership-levels/

February 2022 Newsletter

നമ്മൾ വീണ്ടും ആറാടുകയാണ്

-Girish Sasankasekhar

ഏകദേശം ഒരു 2 വർഷം ആയി കാണും. കൃത്യമായി പറഞ്ഞാൽ നമ്മുടെ ഇറ്റലിയിലെ അച്ചായൻ കേരളത്തിൽ വന്ന സമയം. ഒടിയൻ’നു കഞ്ഞി കൊടുത്ത കേരളം പുച്ഛത്തോടെ പറഞ്ഞു ” ഓ..നമ്മൾ ഇതൊക്കെ എത്ര കണ്ടതാ നിപ്പ , പ്രളയം, പൾസർ….. പിന്നല്ല ! ടീച്ചറമ്മ അച്ചായനെ പൂട്ടിയാൽ പിന്നെ എന്ത് കോവിഡ്.. നാട്ടിൽ ഇറങ്ങിയ പുലിയെ പോലെ അച്ചായനെ പിടിച്ചു അങ്ങ് പൂട്ടി. ശ്വാസം മുട്ടിയ പ്രതികാരദാഹി ആയ കോവിഡ് , സടകുടഞ്ഞു പല രൂപത്തിൽ, പല ഭാവത്തിൽ ഉണർന്നു. കേരളത്തിൽ മാത്രമല്ല, ഈ ലോകം മുഴുവൻ കീഴടക്കാൻ തുടങ്ങിയ ആറാട്ട്.

പക്ഷെ നമ്മൾ എപ്പോഴെങ്കിലും ചിന്തിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ടോ കോവിഡ് നമ്മളെ തേടി വന്നതാണോ, അതോ നമ്മൾ തന്നെ ക്ഷണിച്ചു വരുത്തിയതോ? ഒരു വശത്തു കോവിഡ് നമ്മുടെ ഉറ്റവരെ എടുക്കുമ്പോൾ , മറു വശത്തു ബെറ്റിയിട്ട ബാഴത്തണ്ടു കണ്ടു നമ്മൾ ചിരിച്ചു കൊണ്ടേ ഇരിന്നു . അതിൽ ചിലർ അഹങ്കാരത്തോടെ ചിരിച്ചു, ചിലർ പുച്ഛത്തോടെ..മറ്റു ചിലർ ഇതിൽ ഒളിച്ചിരുന്ന വ്യവസായം കണ്ടു. സിനിമകളെ വിഴുങ്ങുന്ന ഓ.ടി.ടി കച്ചവടം, മുഖസംരക്ഷണം നോക്കാതെ നടന്നവരെ അതിശയിപ്പിച്ച ത്രിവർണ മാസ്കുകൾ, , അങ്ങനെ പലതും നമ്മൾ കണ്ടു. സത്യമാണ്, നമ്മൾ അതിജീവിക്കാൻ പഠിച്ചു. പക്ഷെ , അതൊക്കെ നമുക്കു തന്ന തിരിച്ചറിവിൽ നിന്നാണോ എന്ന് എപ്പോഴെങ്കിലും ചിന്തിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ടോ?

അമേരിക്കയിലെ മാഡം മസാല ദോശ കഴിച്ചു പുകഴ്ത്തിയ നമ്മൾ , അവർ ഇപ്പോ ഒരു ഇഡലി എങ്കിലും കഴിക്കുന്നോ എന്ന് അനേഷിക്കുന്നുണ്ടോ? അതിനൊക്കെ എവിടെയാ സമയം, നാട് ഓടുമ്പോൾ നടുവേ ഓടണ്ടേ.. നമുക്കു പലപ്പോഴും ഒന്നിനും സമയം കിട്ടാറില്ല . പക്ഷെ ഒരു നിമിഷം തിരിന്നു നോക്കി ഒന്നു അനേഷിച്ചാൽ , ഈ വിലപ്പെട്ട സമയം കോവിഡ് നമുക്കു തന്ന ഒരു ഇളവ് അല്ലെ ?നമ്മൾ പണ്ട് അറിഞ്ഞോ അറിയാതേയോ ചെയ്ത ചില നല്ല കാര്യങ്ങൾ കണ്ട് , ഈശ്വരൻ ഈ ലോകത്തു ജീവിക്കാൻ നീട്ടിയ സമയം.

“ഈശ്വരൻ നിൻറ്റെ മുന്നിൽ വിളക്കായി തെളിയുമ്പോൾ അതിൻറ്റെ നേർക്കു നീ തുപ്പരുത്”. ഇത് ഞാൻ പറഞ്ഞതല്ല. പണ്ട് ഏതോ സിനിമയിൽ വിവരം ഉള്ള ഒരു കഥാകൃത്തു നമുക്കു തന്ന വിലപ്പെട്ട ഒരു സന്ദേശം. പക്ഷെ ഇതൊക്കെ കേൾക്കാൻ നമുക്കു എവിടെയാ സമയം. ഈ ഉലകം നമ്മളെ ഇന്നും പരീക്ഷിക്കുമ്പോൾ, നമ്മൾ ഇപ്പോഴും ആറാടുകയല്ലേ ? പരസ്പരം നെഞ്ചത്ത് ചവിട്ടി ആർത്തുചിരിച്ചു , നമ്മൾ വീണ്ടും ആറാടുകയാണ്. !

Apr 2021 Newsletter

Birds chirping and blooming flowers everywhere in a variety of colors and sizes. Whether that is not too hot or cold and light breezes. Ring a bell? Yes, spring is here and we should spend it outside with family and friends.  Like Margaret Atwood once said, “ In the spring, at the end of the day, you should smell like dirt. ” The dull, cold winter has passed and warm, joyful spring is here. Spring is the season that withholds many festivals, some of which are Holi, Easter, and Ugadi. Most people are energetic and happy during this time of year.

Spring is a wonderful time of year to start planting plants. You could try planting your food. When you grow your food, you can make sure that your food is chemical-free and safe to eat.  You could also make a beautiful garden. Not only will these gardens look beautiful but they will also make you happy. Seeing your garden will give you a sense of accomplishment. This might also help reduce anxiety.

Along with spring comes Earth day. Now because there are not as many gardens, we cannot enjoy spring at its highest beauty. This is because global warming and pollution are destroying our world. Some solutions to these problems might be to plant more trees and recycle our waste. We could start walking or ride bikes to close places, instead of using cars. Keep in mind that by doing this, you save yourselves and help save the whole world. Enjoy this wonderful season of joy, spring.

A Zip through the sky

– Sahana Ravikumar

After two hours of waiting in the endless line to go on the zipline at Chestnut Park on a windy day, it was finally going to be my turn.

My belly grumbled; my nose twitched. At that moment, my body trembled as I saw we were pretty high up. My first thought was we were going to fall! My parents down below looked like ants! “Hi”, I whispered almost as if I thought they could hear me or even see me. I shivered. It was slightly cold on this fall day. My friend had done this before, so she rode the zip line without the slightest hesitation.

 I looked up at the tall, nimble park workers and quietly asked them if it was safe. 

They replied in unison, “Of course.” Moments later, I felt the heavy weight from my head creeping down to my two small feet. I whispered silently to myself, “Do I really want to do this?”

There was still one person ahead of me in the line. I felt so wobbly I almost tripped. After two minutes of me staring at the big zipline, I looked down to see my friend, far below from the ground below me shouting, “You can do it!” Then even with all my body saying no, I said yes. My belly rumbled once more. They strapped me up, attached the hooks to the tall zipline and…whoosh! Off I went flying into the sky.

I was so high up I felt like a bird in the big blue dreamy sky! I forgot about all my fears and flew. The ground with the trees and the people looked like tiny bushes and little ants. After ten seconds I came to a halt. As I paced down the stairs leading to the ground, with every step I took, all I could think about was how fun and exciting that ride was. I loved the zipline. It was miraculously beautiful, amazing! I wanted to go again but the line in front of me suggested otherwise. So, we went and enjoyed the other fun park rides.

All the time after that, as I was walking around the park with my mom, I kept wanting to go on the zipline again and again. “Can we go on the zipline again?” I asked my mom.

My mom grinned and exclaimed, “Tomorrow.” I smiled and continued walking throughout the park. 

COMA Recognize our Health Care Warriors & Front Line Workers.

– Presanth Krishnan

The last 12 months has been a challenge to the human endeavor , while many of us still grapple with the day to day inconveniences of Masking , social distancing and stay at home , there are those select few among us who are the frontline defense in this war on our health systems … Coma decided to give a shout out to all the health care professionals in our community who have selflessly led this fight against the coronavirus , they have stepped up and beyond so that all of us can stay healthy . COMA is very proud to recognize these individuals who have been working in the frontline healthcare systems helping and caring for those who have been infected with the virus . We also want to acknowledge the sacrifices made by the families of these healthcare professionals who have stood by them during these long and arduous times. We organized an online event in thanking all of these healthcare professionals “ Virtually “ on April 10th 7:00 PM EST, where we recognized their efforts and expressed our thanks and gratitude for their service .

We started this initiative thinking that we have a maximum of 10 to 15 Health care workers in our community but when we started collecting the names through nominations or through people surprisingly we got around 38 nominations and we could reach  29 of them in person.. We have such a big group of Doctors, nurses and other frontline workers among us and we are so proud of them. Would like to thank all EC committee & Trustee for all their support & coordination in getting this event successful.

Anjana did a wonderful job in compere & host this virtual event where we have a very informative online discussion with few of our Doctors along with Q&A. We would like to thank the Panel doctors Dr. Mathew Cherian, Dr. Jisna Paul, Dr. Binay Eapen, Dr. Niju Baby for sharing their experiences and also answering questions of our members related to the current situation, vaccination and post vaccination.

എസ്. എം. എസ്

– Rakesh Chandran

ആദ്യമേ പറയട്ടെ. ഈ കഥയിലെ നായകന്‍ ഞാന്‍ അല്ല! ഇതിലെ നായകന് എന്റെ സ്വഭാവങ്ങളുമായോ പ്രവൃര്‍ത്തികളുമായോ എന്തെങ്കിലും സാമ്യം തോന്നുന്നുണ്ടങ്കില്‍ അത് തികച്ചും യാദൃച്ഛികം മാത്രമാണ് (പിന്നെ മഞ്ഞ കണ്ണ് കൊണ്ട് നോക്കിയാല്‍ എല്ലാം മഞ്ഞ ആയിരിക്കുമല്ലോ!)

ചെന്നൈയില്‍ ജോലി ചെയ്തിരുന്ന സമയത്താണ് ഈ പോസ്റ്റില്‍ പറയുന്ന അത്യാഹിതങ്ങള്‍ എന്റെ സുഹൃത്തായ വിജയ്‌ക്ക് സംഭവിക്കുന്നത്. അവനേപ്പറ്റി പറയുകയാണങ്കില്‍, ജഗദീഷിന്റെ പുഞ്ചിരിയും സലിം കുമാറിന്റെ സൗന്ദര്യവും ഇന്ദ്രന്‍സിന്റെ ആരോഗ്യവും ദിലീപിന്റെ സ്വഭാവവും ബിജുക്കുട്ടന്റെ ശബ്ദ ഗാംഭീര്യവും ഒത്തിണങ്ങിയ വീര ശൂര പരാക്രമി. എവിടെങ്കിലും ഒരു ചുരിദാറിന്റെ ഷാള്‍ കണ്ടാല്‍ പിന്നെ ആ ഭാഗത്തേക്ക് മാത്രം നോക്കി നില്‍ക്കുന്ന സല്‍ഗുണ സമ്പന്നന്‍.

ഹച്ച് വോടാഫോണിന്റെ കരാള ഹസ്തങ്ങള്‍ക്കിടയില്‍ പെടുന്നതിനു മുന്‍പുള്ള സമയം. മാസം പതിനായിരം എസ്. എം. എസ്. ഫ്രീ എന്ന ഓഫര്‍ ഹച്ച് തന്നിരുന്നു. കൂടെ ജോലി ചെയ്തിരുന്നവര്‍ക്കൊക്കെ (പെണ്‍കുട്ടികള്‍ എന്ന് എടുത്തു പറയണ്ടല്ലോ അല്ലെ?) ചറ പറാ മെസ്സേജുകള്‍ അയക്കുക എന്നത് അവന്റെ ഒരു ഹോബി ആയിരുന്നു. ഗുഡ് മോര്‍ണിംഗ്, ആഫ്ടര്‍നൂണ്‍, ഈവനിംഗ്, നൈറ്റ്‌ എന്ന് വേണ്ട എന്തിനു ഏതിനും കക്ഷി മെസ്സേജ് അയച്ചിരിക്കും. ഓണം, വിഷു, ക്രിസ്മസ് മുതലായ വിശേഷ ദിവസങ്ങള്‍ വന്നാല്‍ അവനു ചാകര ആണു. ഇവന്റെ മെസ്സേജ് അയക്കല്‍ കണ്ടു ഹച്ചുകാര്‍ ഈ ഓഫര്‍ നിര്‍ത്തലാക്കുമോ എന്ന് പോലും ഞങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് തോന്നി.

ഒരു ദിവസം രാത്രി 12 മണിക്ക് എല്ലാവര്‍ക്കും ഗുഡ് നൈറ്റ്‌ ഉം സ്വീറ്റ് ഡ്രീംസ് ഉം ഒക്കെ അയച്ചു കക്ഷി ഉറങ്ങാന്‍ കിടന്നു. ‘ചക്കരെ ഫോണ്‍ എടുക്കടാ..’ എന്ന റിംഗ് ടോണ്‍ കേട്ട് പാതി മയക്കത്തില്‍ ആയിരുന്ന അവന്‍ ഞെട്ടി എഴുനേറ്റു. ഫോണ്‍ നോക്കിയപ്പോള്‍ ‘പ്രിയ കാളിംഗ്’.

പ്രിയ.. സല്‍മാന്‍ ഖാന്‍ കത്രീനയെ മനസ്സില്‍ കൊണ്ട് നടക്കുന്നത് പോലെ വിജയ്‌ യുടെ മനസ്സിലെ സ്വപ്ന സുന്ദരി. ‘ഇവള്‍ എന്തിനാണോ ഈ രാത്രിയില്‍ വിളിക്കുന്നത്?’ എന്ന ചോദ്യവുമായി വിജയ്‌ ഫോണ്‍ എടുത്തു.

‘ഹലോ പ്രിയക്കുട്ടീ.. ഉറങ്ങാറായില്ലേ?’

‘പ്രിയക്കുട്ടിയോ? നീയാരാടാ അവളുടെ അമ്മാവനോ?’. പ്രിയയുടെ സുന്ദര നാദം പ്രതീക്ഷിച്ചിരുന്ന അവന്‍റെ കാതിലേക്ക് ഒഴുകിയെത്തിയത് ഒരു കര്‍ണ കഠോര ശബ്ദം!

‘ഹലോ.. ഇ.. ഇ.. ഇതാരാ?’

‘ഞാന്‍ പ്രിയയുടെ അപ്പന്‍, എന്താ നിനക്ക് അഡ്രെസ്സ് കൂടി വേണോടാ?’

അടിവയറ്റില്‍ കൂടി എന്തോ ഒന്ന് പോകുന്നത് അവന്‍ തിരിച്ചറിഞ്ഞു!

‘അവളെന്ന് മുതലാടാ നിന്‍റെ കുട്ടി ആയത്?’

‘അത് ഞാന്‍.. പിന്നെ.. ചുമ്മാ..’

‘പാതി രാത്രിക്കാനോടാ മെസ്സേജ് അയക്കുന്നത്?’

‘അത് ഇന്ന് ലേറ്റ് ആയി ഓഫീസില്‍ നിന്നും വന്നപ്പം..’

‘ഓഹോ.. അപ്പം നിനക്ക് ഈ മെസ്സേജ് അയക്കല്‍ ഒരു സ്ഥിരം പരിപാടിയാണ് അല്ലേ?’

‘അങ്ങനല്ല.. വല്ലപ്പോഴും..’

‘അവന്‍റെ ഒരു ഗുഡ് നൈറ്റ്‌ ഉം സ്വീറ്റ് ഡ്രീംസ് ഉം.. മേലാല്‍ എന്റെ മോള്‍ക്ക്‌ മെസ്സേജ് അയച്ചേക്കരുത് കേട്ടോടാ’

അയക്കും എന്ന് പറയാന്‍ അവനു പറ്റില്ലല്ലോ. മറുപടിയായി ദയനീയമായി ഒന്ന് മൂളാനെ അവനു കഴിഞ്ഞുള്ളൂ.

അന്ന് രാത്രി അവന്‍ കണ്ട സ്വപ്നങ്ങളിലെ വില്ലന്‍ പ്രിയയുടെ അപ്പന്‍ തന്നെ ആയിരിക്കണം. അതില്‍ പിന്നെ കുറച്ചു ദിവസത്തേക്ക് അവന്‍ പ്രിയയുടെ മുന്നില്‍ പെടാതെ നടന്നു, ഒരു ചമ്മല്‍ ഒഴിവാക്കാമല്ലോ. പക്ഷെ ഒരിക്കന്‍ പ്രിയയുടെ മുന്‍പില്‍ അവന്‍ അറിയാതെ ചെന്ന് പെട്ടു. കുശലം പറച്ചിലുകള്‍ക്ക് ശേഷം അവള്‍ ചോദിച്ചു.

‘എന്താ ഇപ്പം മെസ്സേജുകള്‍ ഒന്നും കാണാനില്ലല്ലോ?’

”ഉവ്വടീ, എന്നിട്ട് വേണം നിന്റെ അപ്പന്‍ ഗുണ്ടകളെ വിട്ടു എന്നെ തല്ലിക്കാന്‍..” എന്ന് പറയണം എന്ന് തോന്നിയങ്കിലും അവന്‍ കണ്ട്രോള്‍ ചെയ്തു. അത് കഴിഞ്ഞപ്പോഴാണ് അവന്‍ ചിന്തിച്ചത്, ആ സംഭവത്തെ പറ്റി പ്രിയ അറിഞ്ഞു കാണില്ല, അല്ലങ്കില്‍ അവള്‍ ഇങ്ങനെ ചോദിക്കില്ലല്ലോ!

‘ആകെ തിരക്കിലാ, അതാ’.. വിജയ്‌ നൈസ് ആയിട്ടങ്ങു സ്ലിപ് ആയി!

പിന്നീട് ഒരു ദിവസം രാത്രി എല്ലാവക്കും ഒരു ഫോര്‍വേര്‍ഡ് മെസ്സേജ് അയച്ചു കൊണ്ടിരുന്നപ്പോള്‍ അവന്റെ ഫോണ്‍ വീണ്ടും വിറച്ചു. ‘പ്രിയ കാളിംഗ്..’ അപ്പോഴാണ്‌ ആ ഞെട്ടിക്കുന്ന സത്യം അവന്‍ മനസ്സിലാക്കിയത്. മെസ്സേജ് അയച്ച ഒരു ലിസ്റ്റില്‍ അവളുടെ പേരും ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു. അപ്പോള്‍ ഇത് അവളുടെ ആ അംജദ് ഖാന്‍ അപ്പന്‍ തന്നെ! കന്നി മത്സരത്തില്‍ വഖാറിനെ നേരിടുമ്പോള്‍ സച്ചിന്‍റെ നെഞ്ച് പോലും ഇത്രയും ഇടിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ടാവില്ല. അവന്‍ ഫോണ്‍ അറ്റന്‍ഡ് ചെയ്തില്ല.

പിറ്റേന്ന് കമ്പനി ബസ്സില്‍ ഓഫീസിലേക്ക് പൊയ്ക്കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുമ്പോള്‍ ആണ് അവനു ഒരു പരിചയമില്ലാത്ത ഫോണില്‍ നിന്നും കാള്‍ വന്നത്. ക്രെഡിറ്റ്‌ കാര്‍ഡ് വേണോ എന്ന് ചോദിച്ചു ഏതേലും ബാങ്ക് തരുണീമണി ആയിരിക്കും, ലവളോടു പഞ്ഞാര അടിച്ചേക്കാം എന്ന് കരുതി അവന്‍ ഫോണ്‍ എടുത്ത് സ്റ്റൈലില്‍ പറഞ്ഞു ‘ഹലോ, വിജയ്‌ ഹിയര്‍’

‘അവളുടെ ഫോണില്‍ നിന്ന് വിളിച്ചാ നീ എടുക്കില്ല എന്ന് എനിക്ക് മനസ്സിലായി’

(‘ദൈവമേ.. പ്രിയയുടെ അപ്പന്‍!) ‘അത്.. പിന്നെ.. കാള്‍ ഞാന്‍ കണ്ടില്ല’

‘വേല എന്നോട് വേണ്ടടാ.. നിന്നെക്കാള്‍ കുറേ ഓണം കൂടുതല്‍ ഉണ്ടവനാ ഞാന്‍’

(‘പിന്നെ.. ഓണം കൂടുതല്‍ ഉണ്ടാല്‍ ബുദ്ധി കൂടുമോ? എന്നാ പിന്നെ അടുത്ത കൊല്ലം മുതല്‍ ഓരോ ഓണത്തിനും അഞ്ചാറു പ്രാവശ്യം ഞാന്‍ ഉണ്ടോളാമേ’)
ഇവിടെ മൌനം..

‘നിന്നോട് മെസ്സേജ് അയക്കരുതെന്നു മലയാളത്തില്‍ പറഞ്ഞാല്‍ മനസ്സിലാകില്ലേടാ?’

(‘ഇല്ല, ഞാന്‍ ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് മീടിയത്തിലാ പഠിച്ചത്’)
‘അത്.. അറിയാതെ പറ്റിയതാ’

‘പിന്നെ.. നമ്പര്‍ എന്നോട് വേണ്ടടാ.. ഇങ്ങനെ അറിയാതെ നീ ഇനിയും അയക്കും അല്ലെടാ?’

(‘ഇനി അയക്കുവാണേല്‍ അറിഞ്ഞോണ്ടേ അയക്കൂ’)
‘ഇല്ല.. ഇനി അയക്കില്ല’

‘നിനക്കെന്റെ തനി സ്വഭാവം അറിയാന്‍ മേല. ഞാന്‍ മഹാ തറയാ’

(‘അത് ഇപ്പഴേ മനസ്സിലായി’)
വീണ്ടും മൌനം

‘എന്താടാ നിന്‍റെ നാവിറങ്ങിപോയോ?

(‘ഇറങ്ങിപ്പോയാ ഇയാള്‍ പൊക്കിയെടുക്കാന്‍ വരുമോ? ഇയാള്‍ക്കെന്താ ഫയര്‍ ഫോര്‍സിലാണോ പണി?’)

‘ഇവിടെ തന്നെ ഉണ്ട്’

‘ആഹാ.. അഹങ്കാരീ.. തര്‍ക്കുത്തരം പറയുന്നോ? നിന്നെ ഞാന്‍ കാണിച്ചു തരാമെടാ’

(‘അയ്യേ, എനിക്കെങ്ങും കാണണ്ട. തന്‍റെ കെട്ടിയോളെ പോയി കാണിച്ചാ മതി’)
‘ഇനി അയക്കില്ല എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞില്ലേ?’

‘ഇത് തന്നെ അല്ലേടാ കഴിഞ്ഞ പ്രാവശ്യവും നീ പറഞ്ഞത്.. ഇനി നീ സൂക്ഷിച്ചോ.. അടുത്ത മറുപടി ഫോണില്‍ ആയിരിക്കില്ല’.

ആ ഫോണ്‍ കട്ട്‌ ചെയ്തു കഴിഞ്ഞപ്പോള്‍ വിജയ്‌ ഒരു ദീര്‍ഖ ശ്വാസം വിട്ടു. ബസ്സില്‍ അടുത്തിരുന്നവര്‍ അത് മറ്റെന്തോ ആണന്നു തെറ്റിധരിച്ചന്നു മാത്രം!

ഈ രണ്ടാമത്തെ സംഭവത്തിനു ശേഷം, ശകലം മടിയോടെ ആണങ്കിലും അവന്‍ ഞങ്ങള്‍ക്കെല്ലാവര്‍ക്കും മുന്നറിയിപ്പ് തന്നു. ആരും പ്രിയക്ക് രാത്രി മെസ്സേജ് അയക്കരുത്, അവളുടെ അപ്പന്‍ ആള് ശെരിയല്ല എന്നൊക്കെ. നടന്ന സംഭവങ്ങള്‍ അവനു തുറന്നു പറയേണ്ടി വന്നു. പാവം, ആത്മാര്‍ഥത ഉള്ളവനാ.

ഞങ്ങളുടെ പ്രോജെക്ടില്‍ നിന്നും ഒരു കൊടൈക്കനാല്‍ ട്രിപ്പ്‌ പ്ലാന്‍ ചെയ്തത് ആയിടക്കാണ്. ഒരു ട്രെയിന്‍ ട്രിപ്പ്‌, അവിടെ ചെന്നിട്ടു പിന്നെ ബസ്സില്‍. പ്രിയ ഉണ്ടന്നറിഞ്ഞു വിജയ്‌ യും ട്രിപ്പിനു റെഡിയായി. പക്ഷെ അവസാന സമയം, എന്തോ ചില കാരണങ്ങളാല്‍ അവനു വരാന്‍ പറ്റിയില്ല. അവനു പകരം അവന്‍റെ ടിക്കെറ്റില്‍ ശരത് വരാന്‍ റെഡി ആയി, ശരത്തിന് വേണ്ടി ആദ്യം ടിക്കറ്റ്‌ ബുക്ക്‌ ചെയ്തില്ലായിരുന്നു.  ചെന്നൈ എഗ് മോറില്‍ ട്രെയിന്‍ കാത്തു നിന്നപ്പോള്‍ ഞങ്ങള്‍ ഓരോരുത്തരുടെ മുന്‍പിലും വന്നു ശരത് പറഞ്ഞു.

‘എടാ, ടി. ടി. ആര്‍. വന്നു നോക്കുമ്പം നിങ്ങള്‍ എന്നെ വിജയ്‌ എന്ന് വിളിക്കണം, കേട്ടോടാ?’

‘ഞാനാണ് വിജയ്‌..’

‘ഞാനാണ് വിജയ്‌..’

‘ഞാനാണ് വിജ……………..’

അവന്‍ പകുതിക്ക് വച്ച് നിര്‍ത്തിയത് കേട്ട് ഞാന്‍ തിരിഞ്ഞു നോക്കി.. അവന്‍ ചെന്നു പെട്ടെത് പ്രിയയെ യാത്ര അയക്കാന്‍ വന്ന അവളുടെ അപ്പന്‍റെ മുന്‍പില്‍. അയാള്‍ ഒരു കലിപ്പിച്ച നോട്ടം അവനെ നോക്കി. ‘യോ.. യോ..’ പറഞ്ഞു നടന്നിരുന്ന അവന്‍റെ എല്ലാ ‘യോയും’ പോയി..

‘ഞാനല്ല വിജയ്‌..’ എന്ന് പറയണമെന്നുണ്ടായിരുന്നു അവനു, പക്ഷെ സാഹചര്യങ്ങളുടെ സമ്മര്‍ദത്തെ അതിജീവിക്കാനുള്ള ത്രാണി അവനുണ്ടായിരുന്നില്ല എന്നതാണ് പരമമായ യാഥാര്‍ത്ഥ്യം!

പ്രിയയുടെ ചേച്ചിയുടെ കല്യാണത്തിനു അവള്‍ ഞങ്ങളെ ക്ഷണിച്ചപ്പോള്‍ വിജയുടെ മുഖത്തെക്കാന് ഞങ്ങള്‍ ആദ്യം നോക്കിയത്.

‘പോണോടാ, നിന്‍റെ കൊച്ചിന്റെ ചേച്ചിയുടെ കല്യാണത്തിനു?’

‘ഡാ, ഞങ്ങളുടെ പ്രേമം നിങ്ങള്‍ക്കല്ലാതെ ഞങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് രണ്ടു പേര്‍ക്ക് മാത്രമേ അറിയൂ, വേറാരും കേള്‍ക്കണ്ട’

‘ങേ?? നീ അവളോട്‌ പറഞ്ഞോ?’

‘ഏയ്‌, ഞാന്‍ പറഞ്ഞത് എനിക്കും എന്‍റെ പഴയ കാമുകിക്കും. ഇവളുടെ പേര് പറഞ്ഞല്ലേ ഞാന്‍ മറ്റവളുമായി അടിച്ചു പിരിഞ്ഞത്’

‘ബെസ്റ്റ്’

‘എടാ, അവള് ഒന്നും കേള്‍ക്കല്ലേ.  ഇനി എനിക്കവളോട് പ്രേമമാനന്നു അവള്‍ അപ്പനോട് പോയി പറഞ്ഞാല്‍ അയാള്‍ എന്നെ തല്ലാന്‍ ഗുണ്ടകളെ വിടും’

‘അപ്പം നിനക്ക് പേടി ഉണ്ട്’

‘പോടാ, അതൊന്നുമല്ല. കാര്യം ഞാന്‍ അഹിംസാ വാദി ആണങ്കിലും ആരേലും എന്‍റെ മേത്തു തൊടുന്നത് എനിക്കിഷ്ടമല്ല. പിന്നെ അടിയാകും, രക്തചൊരിച്ചില്‍ ഉണ്ടാകും. ഞാന്‍ രണ്ടു മൂന്നെന്നത്തിനെ തട്ടിയെന്നിരിക്കും. പിന്നെ സാക്ഷി പറയാന്‍ നിങ്ങള്‍ കോടതി കയറിയിറങ്ങണം. എന്തിനാടാ ഇതെല്ലാം?’

‘പോടെ പോടെ. നീ കല്യാണത്തിന് വരുന്നോ? പേടിയാണേല്‍ അത് പറ’

‘ആഹാ അത്രക്കായോ? എന്നാ അവളുടെ അപ്പനെ പോയി കണ്ടു ഞാനാണ് വിജയ്‌ എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞിട്ടേ ബാക്കി കാര്യമുള്ളൂ’

‘എടാ നീ ഇപ്പം പോയി പറയാന്‍ പോകുവാണോ?’

‘ആണങ്കില്‍..’

‘ഇന്ന് ലീവ് എടുക്കാന്‍ പറ്റില്ല, നല്ല പണി ഉണ്ട്. അപ്പം നിന്‍റെ ശവാടക്ക് കൂടാന്‍ പറ്റില്ലല്ലോ’

(‘സെന്‍സേര്‍ട്’)
‘നീ നോക്കിക്കോടാ, കല്യാണത്തിന് പോകുമ്പോള്‍ അവളുടെ അപ്പനുമായി ഞാന്‍ മുട്ടിയിരിക്കും. ഒന്നുമില്ലേലും എന്‍റെ ഭാവി അമ്മായിയപ്പന്‍ ആകേണ്ട ആളല്ലേ?’

‘ഓ പിന്നെ.. നീ ഒരു ഹോട്ടെലില്‍ നിന്നും സ്ഥിരം ചായ കുടിക്കാറില്ലല്ലോ!’

(‘വീണ്ടും സെന്‍സേര്‍ട്’)

പ്രിയയുടെ ചേച്ചിയുടെ കല്യാണ ദിനം. ഹാളിനു വെളിയില്‍ എത്തിയപ്പോള്‍ അവന്‍ പറഞ്ഞു, ‘നിങ്ങളിവിടെ നിന്ന് നോക്കിക്കോ ഞാന്‍ അവളുടെ അപ്പനോട് മുട്ടുന്നത് എങ്ങനെ ആണന്നു’.

അകത്തേക്ക് പോയ കക്ഷി അത് പോലെ തന്നെ തിരിച്ചു വന്നു, വെസ്ടിന്‍ഡീസ് പര്യടനത്തിനു പോയ ഇന്ത്യന്‍ ടീമിലെ ഓപ്പണര്‍മാര്‍ ഗ്രൌണ്ടിലേക്ക് ഇറങ്ങുകയും ഉണ്ടന്‍ തന്നെ തിരിച്ചു കയറുകയും ചെയ്യാറുള്ളത് പോലെ (ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ ഇന്ത്യന്‍ ടീം അല്ല കേട്ടോ, പണ്ടത്തെ)

‘എന്ത് പറ്റിയടാ, നീ മുട്ടിയില്ലേ?’

‘എടാ, അവളുടെ അപ്പന്‍ ശെരിക്കും ഗുണ്ടകളെ വിളിച്ചു നിര്‍ത്തിയിട്ടുണ്ടന്നു തോന്നുന്നു. അവിടെ കുറേ തടിമാടന്മാര്‍’

‘അത് ഗുണ്ടകള്‍ അല്ലടാ , അവളുടെ അമ്മാവന്മാരാ’ പ്രിയയുടെ അടുത്തുള്ള വിനോദ് പറഞ്ഞു.

പാല്‍പായസ പ്രിയനായ വിജയ്‌ അന്ന് പായസം പോയിട്ട് ചോറ് പോലും നേരെ ചൊവ്വേ കഴിച്ചില്ല! തന്നെയുമല്ല പിന്നൊരിക്കലും പ്രിയാ ഹോട്ടലില്‍ നിന്നും ചായ കുടിക്കണമെന്നു തോന്നിയതുമില്ല!

ഏതായാലും പ്രിയയുടെ അപ്പന്‍ കാരണം രക്ഷപെട്ടത് ഞങ്ങളാണ്. ദിവസവും ഞങ്ങളുടെ മൊബൈല്‍ ഇന്‍ബോക്സ് നിറച്ചു കൊണ്ടിരുന്നത് അവന്‍റെ വക കുറേ ചവറു മെസ്സേജുകള്‍ ആയിരുന്നു, ഞങ്ങള്‍ വിചാരിച്ചിട്ട് നിര്‍ത്താന്‍ പറ്റാത്തത് അങ്ങേരു സാധിച്ചു തന്നു!  ‘ഫ്രീ മെസ്സേജ് വെറുതെ പാഴാക്കി കളയുന്നത് എങ്ങനെയാടാ?’ എന്ന് പിന്നീടൊരിക്കലും അവന്‍ ഞങ്ങളോട് പറഞ്ഞിട്ടില്ല.

Meals on Wheels Volunteers

April 25, 2021: Thomas Pullumpallil, Reuben Varughese, Presanth Krishnan, Rajeev Kumar Route#1801
April 11, 2021: Valsan Palika, Presanth Krishnan, Nandana Presanth Route#1600
March 28, 2021: Deepa Jayabalan, Adithya Menon, Yogalakshmi Venugopal, Chetana Kunchuvari Anand Prakash Route#1801
March 14, 2021: John Patrick, Anitha John, Stevie Rajesh, Dannie Rajesh Route#1600
February 28, 2021: Manoj Thomas, Julie Joseph, Melissa Thomas, Alison Thomas Route#1801
February 14, 2021: John Patrick, Anitha John, Stevie Rajesh, Dannie Rajesh Route#1600
January 24, 2021: Joseph Abraham, Nancy Joseph, Joshua Abraham, Rachael Abraham Route#1801
January 10, 2021: Nish Nishant, Pradeesh Puthiyattil, Anoop Nair Route#1600

Thank you, we greatly appreciate your work!

COMA upcoming events

As you all know, due to this Pandemic we were unable to organize any programs outside as of now . We keep watching the CDC guidelines to plan for our upcoming programs if possible outdoor rather than online events. After our first event of Thanking our Health Care Warriors, Executive committee is working on scheduling programs like 5K run , Picnic, ONAM celebrations etc. in the upcoming months .We will keep you all posted as soon as we have finalized the next program and dates. We expect all your support and guidance for all our upcoming events this year. Stay tuned for more information and do reach out to coma.officials@gmail.com for any questions.

October Newsletter 2020

An October day is characterized by colourful trees and a gentle breeze, a picturesque scene for photographs. Fall is a time of change, change in weather, change in the colour of leaves, and change in the behaviours of animals. As Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi was born on October 2nd of 1869. This year we celebrated the 151st anniversary of Gandhi Jayanti. Gandhiji not only was an advocate for India’s freedom but is also an idol for freedom fighters around the globe.

Photo Courtesy- Nimil Peethambaran

Like nature, we must also be ready to accept the change that COVID-19 brings along with it. In order to pull through these tough times, we must not only have a healthy body but also a healthy mind. October 10 was World Mental Health Day, which is a day that is set aside to help raise awareness for mental health. Due to COVID-19, mental health problems have increased. Everybody has different ways of handling stress and anxiety. Here are some ways you could try to reduce stress.

  • Listen to music
  • Read a book or poem(October 1 was National Poetry Day)
  • Do some breathing exercises
  • Participate in community services and activities
  • Do something you enjoy

Have a Happy Halloween and don’t forget to get your flu shots!


Thanksgiving

– Ravikumar Hariharan

The strong winds gushed past my ears. The waves of the mighty ocean, as though hesitantly, kissed my feet and quickly retreated. As I walked along the beachside, even the sky made his intention clear bursting out into huge streaks of lightning. Slowly I came to rest on the beach sands, with my eyes viewing the distant horizon.

I came all this way, to see the golden sunset into the depths of the ocean. But somehow even the sun, eluded me as he hid himself behind the darkest of the clouds. Neither did the moon appear, even if he did, I wouldn’t have known, for the sky itself was turning itself into a big moon, painting itself grey. I felt a raindrop on my eyelids, slowly easing its way down through my cheeks. I dragged my eyes from the distance to view the things happening around me, the beach sands, that hugged each other to make a beautiful whole, the water that hissed and roared, but made a cool and soft impact as they touched my feet. I looked at all those sand particles that glued itself to my feet, and would never let go.

I looked at the children who jumped up and down, dancing in glee. Some were playing with the waves, and the waves like a true friend, always entertained and never let them down. Though very vague against the dull dark background, I could still see a host of birds fly across dark firmament. The waves continued to wet my feet, bringing with it sand that made a thicker layer on my skin. It was a long 14 years since I stepped onto the beach sands, and for all the craving, these sand particles will not let go of me!!! I looked at the vast ocean of life and thanked him for these humble offerings, for these moments of happiness and fortune, he had selflessly offered me. I was seated a fair distance away from him, but thanks to him, he still never forgot to let those cool waves kiss my feet, and pour in those sand particles onto my skin. This ocean of life has always been kind to me, I thought. Now was my chance to give something back to him, I got up from my place and moved closer to the waters. Bent down onto the beach sands. I wrote on them a big “Thank you”.To this big ocean of life, this is all I can give!!! And here came the waves and imbibed my message, and as if like a token of love, swept cool waves onto my feet.

 I started on my way home, dragged myself away from those waves, which every time tried to lure me into coming back by gushing in with greater strength and covering greater distances. When I was a fair distance from the shore, I slowly wiped off the dust from my feet. Thanked all the sweet and fortunate moments life had offered me and got ready to face the new world around me. The sky around was still dark, and frightening. I knew that the way ahead in life would be tough. I gave a final peep into the horizon and saw the full moon now smiling at me. The sky was slowly clearing, and the moonlight now fell on the water giving it a beautiful silvery tint. With this newfound hope, I started walking, in search of myself, in search of the newer moments life would bring. But looking back at the waters, I said to myself and to them.”Bye, I will come again to see you another day !!!”


Youth Corner

My White Water Rafting

– Niraj Rajeev

I was doing river rafting in West Virginia “This is going to be great,” I thought to myself. When we got to the registration area they said to sign a waiver. I was going with a family friend. My dad signed the form, and we got our equipment, a life jacket, a helmet, and a one-sided paddle. Then we got on a bus and went to the place that we were going to get dropped off at. We filled the raft with air, and placed it on the water and got on with five other people. When the guide said, “Give me two”, we had to paddle two times. We were off, I felt excited and scared. Then we got to the first rapid and cold water splashed into the boat and, “Oh god hold on Niraj, hold on” thought to myself. On the third rapid the guide said you can swim and I said “Yes!” When I jumped into the river, cold water grabbed me. “Have I gone mad?” I thought to myself and I swam the rapid. It was fun and the day ended. We went to the house where we were staying. It was an exciting and adventurous experience.  


Meals on Wheels Volunteers

October 11, 2020: Jayabalan Achuthan,Deepa Jayabalan and Adithya Jayabalan
Completed Route: # V1600

October 25, 2020: Sudha Warrier, Syam Ayyar and Govi Warrier
Completed Route: # V1801

Thank you, we greatly appreciate your work!


COMA’s Christmas Celebration 2020

Yes, Christmas is around the corner and we are still indoors with limitations to gatherings, but that does not restrict us from having fun & celebrations. COMA is excited to bring another virtual event to celebrate Christmas – “COMA’s Christmas with the gifted!” on Saturday, December 5th late evening.

Though we will miss the usual Christmas feast and photo with Santa, we will have some special guests to be part of our celebration. The program will be a blend of pre-recorded events and some marvellous Live Performances by renowned artists from Kerala along with gifting a charity for a noble cause.

Stay tuned for more information and do reach out to coma.officials@gmail.com for any questions.

September 2020 Newsletter

Fall is up on us and like spring and summer, we are inside most of the time wishing we were outside enjoying the beautiful fall days, not too hot but not too cold, witnessing fall colors, sipping pumpkin spice lattes, football and most of all desperately hoping for a 100% effective vaccine!

But till that happens, Corona doesn’t have to take all the fun out of everything we want to do. If the past two seasons have taught us anything it is that the pandemic is here for a while, but we can still enjoy some activities-it’s just that they will look little different, with social distancing, virtual get-togethers and masks (‘wearing is caring’!!).

As we move into October we hope you all stay safe, enjoy the outdoors, pumpkin carving, trick or treat, watching football sitting on your couches with a beverage of choice and of course the array of articles we have for you in this edition of the newsletter.

– Smitha Sasindran

Reflections & Ramblings #8: Fall 2020

-Hari Narayanaswamy

The calendar said, Fall is here
But I demurred, not for me
Fall had arrived in Spring for me
Winter hastened on Summer nights

The pandemic winds blew very hard
We held our breath and hid in nests
Hunkered down behind four walls
Shivering in fear, silent in prayer

We know for sure it will pass one day
Though not sure when the day will come
Are the winds slowly dying down, Or
Taking a breather to blow more harsh?

I should be glad that Fall is here, for
Empathetic nature shall join our plight
Together shall we wait for Spring
When sky will brighten and we fly out!

Lost Innocence

-Ravikumar Hariharan

The road whorled like a serpent. The curtain of dawn was falling over the day’s events. My eyes were pivoted on the huge rock on the top of the hill, the permanent milestone for all my evening walks. The cold evening breeze tottered along with me, giving me reliable company. The sky was a mosaic of colors. Grey clouds dispersed between patches of blue and red along with dapples of gold. With every step I took, the hill seemed steeper. I dragged myself on.

My mind traced the panorama of events I had walked through. Every event that flashed was unique, each adding its own color and beauty to the happenings just as the colors of this evening sky .Painted together made an even beautiful whole. Then there were the grey clouds that pierced through the colorful happenings…moments of regret??of pain? Every look at those black patches made them look bigger.  I briefly reflected on those small incidents in my life, the moments of despair, frustration and regret that had kissed my life in the yesterdays. The frustrations from those incidents reminded me of the overpowering ego that sometimes conquers and rules the invincible self. The moments of despair reflected my expectations that had transgressed beyond. Regrets evoked in me the reality that I am sometimes a helpless soul, a mere puppet in the hands of destiny.

The sky turned purple, slowly dissolving into the darkness and I lost myself in it. My mind like the dark firmament above was starting to paint itself grey. I continued my journey up the hill, The rock on top of the hill was no longer visible in the brooding darkness. The street lights cast their long shadows on the road, in the process also wetting my path with their faint yellow light.

Suddenly as I turned to my right, I found a boy running by my side. As the street light fell on his face, I saw the infectious smile that played on his lips. At the speed at which I was walking, he had to run to keep my company. But he was bustling with enthusiasm, and made me forget that my legs were tired. I gave him a smile and asked him…”You seem to be very happy…Why??”. “Why shouldn’t I be??”, his face seemed to say. I gave him a sarcastic smile as if to convey “You have just started your life, kid, You are yet to know the harsh realities that make up this life. Do you know, that life is not all that easy, and that you cannot always keep smiling like are doing now??” The smile on his face grew wider. He kept running, as though my words had hardly reached his ears. I don’t know what was happening to me in his presence, but I was starting to blurt out my mind. “You know…human Beings are by nature selfish. And many a times your self esteem and dreams are trampled over by insensitive minds that cannot see a world beyond theirs. Every person here is involved in a mad race, a race to satisfy ones ego with every step that is taken.” The wind carried my voice to every place except for the boys ears. He was singing a rhyme as he happily ran up the hill ,and the rhyme fell to my ears thus:

“Twinkle twinkle little star..How I wonder…what (ALL) u want???”!!

He was enjoying every moment without involving himself with my emotional upheavals. Once in a while he would stop to pluck a flower or two along the way, and he would say with the most innocent smile “For my friends..” Undeterred by his indifference for my words, I continued my lament. “You know one must never be emotionally attached to any person or thing…Attachment breeds expectations, expectations leads to over-expectations and finally ends in frustrations and pain.”. I continued to realize that my words were reaching deaf years and that the boy was fully absorbed in the totality of the moment. In his zig zag run, he would sometimes bump into me and flashing that naughty infectious smile, he would continue running.

“The boy smiled and smiled from his heart; Brought out an innocent smile from my part, Have I smiled similarly ever before, No trickery, no lies, All innocence to the fore ??”

The faint smile that appeared on my lips did little to wither away the storm that was brewing in my heart. However hard I tried to think of something else, my mind like a cyclone swirled and swirled and came back to the same point..my frustrations..my pains…uh… His singing of rhymes continued, and fell on my ears thus:

“Humpty Dumpty sat on the wall(of expectations ???)  Humpty Dumpty had a great fall!!!”

I was starting to lose my temper…Who do u think I am talking to…these trees???” I yelled out at him. The happy go lucky boy seemed to not hear it. My legs had traversed a fair distance and though I could not see the rock in the pitch darkness, My mind told me that I was getting closer to my destination. I shook my head in frustration and cried out “Oh God, I am living this life all wrong!!!”

We were nearing the top of the hill, and the rock I had set out to reach was now slowly becoming visible in the faint street light. I slowed down my steps, but the boy kept running, and before I could realize, he was slowly dissolving himself into the darkness that lay ahead of me. I called out to him…”You dint tell me anything about yourself…What’s your name??How old are you???”A cute little voice yelled back from the dark…”Dint you realize??I am Ravi…and I am 6 years old!!!”As I started my journey down the hill, I could not help but smile to myself…”. Now I knew where I was going wrong”!!

How to mix Alcohol : Balancing Risk

-Sreejith Menon

Alcohol, mallayalis favorite word in the dictionary. I hope you will think about this article next time you say cheers.

Alcohol effects both your mind and body. Here are some of the effects it can have on your health.

Muscle Loss – Alcohol increases the chances of muscle loss if you’re in a calorie deficit diet. So, even if you manage to fit your beer calories into your diet, they still might have a more negative effect as compared to other calories consumed.

Fat Gain: When you consume alcohol, most of your cells prefer to burn it as a fuel source before they switch back to burning their usual mixture of carbs and fats. This means that your body is not burning the other calories as efficiently, and they are slightly more likely to be stored as fat. If your goal is weight loss, then alcohol is likely to slow down your progress.

Impaired Recovery: Alcohol directly reduces the rate of recovery after a training session. It means that the harder you train and the more recovery demands you make on your body, the more pronounced the harmful effects of alcohol will be. Athletes, in particular, are likely to be most affected since recovery plays such an important role in their performance.

Effect on Sleep: Sleep is the elixir of life, and plays a critical role in facilitating weight loss, muscle gain, and general wellness. Alcohol disrupts the normal sleep cycle and makes it more difficult for someone to reach levels of deep sleep.

Hydration Issues: Alcohol consumption causes dehydration. Alcohol is a diuretic, so be prepared to make a LOT of trips to the bathroom.

I bet, no one wants to hear alcohol is bad and just STOP drinking. So here is what you can do to reduce some of its effects on your health.

1. Drink in moderation: Don’t consume more than 2-4 drinks at a time. Also restrict the number of times you drink to may be once in two weeks.
2. Avoid “kaddies”: High-calorie snacks with alcohol are a big no-no. Stay away from them.
3. Mixers: Use a calorie-free beverage. Water and plain soda are preferable.
4. Avoid drinking too late: Maintain a sufficient gap between happy hours and bed time
5. Less is Better: An obvious one – try to limit alcohol intake as much as possible
6. The Other Liquid Of Life: Remember to stay hydrated. Drink water between drinks and after you’re done.

These are just guidelines that can reduce the adverse effect of alcohol. But keep in mind that there will likely be a trade-off with your health. Include alcohol in your lifestyle only if you are okay with that.

As always, drink responsibly!

Cheers!!

References –
1.https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24748461/
2.https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20575805/
3.https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10840864/
4.https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19079280/
5.https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22254055/

Scuba Dive

Adithya Menon

I love adventure and thrill in life, so I decided to get certified in Scuba diving.
To get started we enrolled with Captain Rick who runs the dive school in Westerville. He is a US Army Veteran and was a NAVY Sea Cadet Scuba Instructor.
Getting certified with NAUI (National Association of Underwater Instructors) was no fun, as it took me to school learning about buoyancy and air pressure. Had to clear online exam which I did great with the help of fun videos and online learning experience.
Next was to be show the stamina to the diving instructor and to achieve it, had to swim 9 laps without stopping in Westerville aquatic club, and also did many dive sessions in 10 feet pool.
I was all set and flew to Florida with my mom for getting both of us certified in Scuba diving. We did our open water dive in a huge lake and 3 dives 40-70 feet in Atlantic Ocean, this was all when I was 10 year old in 2017.
The whole process took 6 months to be called certified Scuba Diver.

Long story short the experience I am talking about here was diving in WV at Summersville Lake few weeks back. The lake is formed by a rock-fill dam (Summersville Dam) on the Gauley River, south of Summersville in Nicholas County. It is the largest lake in West Virginia, with maximum depth of 327
feet.
I did two dives here on a beautiful day going down 40 feet. The experience was different than my firstdive in Florida 3 years back. Florida was ocean with salt, yet many fishes and corals. Summersville wasrocky clear lake with beautiful views.
Planning for more dives this New Year in Florida. If you are interested, Captain Rick does discovery divesessions, to help you for the path to get certified as Scuba Diver.
Here is link to my Video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NA1x8UCNaZs

Sky Dive

Deep Jayabalan

I have a very long bucket list, and one of the things was to Skydive.
My first dive was in Sep 2016, in Columbus OH. The best part of this dive was Jay (Husband) planned to give me birthday surprise to fulfill one of the long pending bucket list. My mom who was 56 year old then, and had acute Rheumatoid also decided to dive with me. What else to ask for in life; when you have such an inspiring and motivating family.Then Sep 2020, Jay (Husband) and few of my friends decided to give me birthday gift again to Skydive in Chicago. Best part was the friends who were willing to dive with me as my birthday gift had acute Acrophobia (Fear of heights). The experience both times cannot be explained, however I will try to put few words here:
In the hangar we put on our harnesses and helmets and were given instructions. After signing a few papers we were on our way to the plane! There were few of us in a very small space, some getting certified, some like me for the adrenaline rush.
Suddenly we were 14,000 feet above the ground. Its tandem skydive, which means tied to the instructor, still has few protocols to be followed; like making sure legs are folded behind before jumping off the plane, body in arch shape during free fall etc.,

Slowly the people in plane started to jump, and then it was my turn, and here we go with free fall of 240-290 km/hr. for 60 sec (This is the thrill of the skydive; with strong wind gushing on the face, and just falling freely down from the height of 14,000 feet).And then the parachute opens and everything suddenly slows down. We floated peacefully towards
earth, leaving the beautiful clouds behind us.
This was definitely one of the chilling and most exhilarating experiences of my life. The sensation of falling from so high is amazing and the adrenaline rush is crazy every time it’s done.
The sense of achievement of being able to fulfill the bucket list, not just once but twice feels just so good.
Thanks for reading my experience and am happy to answer questions, if planning for your dive.
Here is my YouTube channel with both the videos.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCC9aga2b1eTAj4fkXeu8RLQ

Meals on Wheels volunteers

September 27, 2020: Subin, Simple Subin, Kevin Subin and Trisha Subin

Completed Route #V1801

September 13, 2020: Praveen Kumar, Priya Praveen and Gauri Praveen

Completed Route #1600

 Huge Thanks to the volunteers!

Aug 2020 newsletter

Ullathu kondu Onam pole – an age old saying reminding us that no matter what, we Malayalees celebrate Onam with as much or as little as we have. This year’s Onam has taken this thought to new heights with COVID taking the sheen out of Onam. For many, the high voltage festival of pookalam, puli kali, boat race, kasavu dresses and yummilicious sadya has been reduced to an indoor game. But COVID has not been able to dent the malayalee spirit. This keeps us ticking and kicking. Most of us may have a story of loss or agony to share but we are ready to welcome our erstwhile ruler KING MAHABALI

– Nithya Rajagopalan

ഓണ സദ്യ

വത്സൻ പാലിക 

തുമ്പ മലരിന്റെ ചന്തമുണർത്തുന്ന

ചൂടുള്ള കുത്തരി ചോറിൽ

അൻപോടെ അമ്മ വിളമ്പി, നറുമണം

എങ്ങും പരത്തും നറുനെയ്!

പൂക്കളത്തോളം മനോഹരം തന്നെ

തൂശനിലയിലെ വട്ടം

ഒക്കെ കഴിച്ചിട്ടുവേണം സുഖമായി

ഉച്ച മയക്കത്തിലാഴാൻ!

എത്രയോ കാലമായ് ഉള്ളിലൊതുക്കിയ

മോഹമാണീ ഓണ സദ്യ!

“ഇത്രയുമായാൽ ഇനിതുടങ്ങാം”, എന്ന്

മുത്തശ്ശി മെല്ലെപറഞ്ഞു

പച്ചടി, കിച്ചടി, കാളനവിയൽ, പിന്നെ

അച്ചാറുകൾ നാലു കൂട്ടം

കായ വറുത്തതും ശർക്കര ചേർത്തതും

ആകെയൊരാഘോഷമത്രെ!

നൂറ്റെട്ടുകൂട്ടം കറികൾക്ക് തുല്യമാം

ഇഞ്ചിക്കറി ചിരി തൂകി!

ഏറ്റവും വേഗത്തിലെല്ലാം കഴിക്കണം രണ്ടിനം

പായസമുണ്ട്‌ പിന്നാലേ!

അമ്മതൻ കൈപ്പുണ്യം തൊട്ടുണർത്തി,

നാവിലെന്നോ മറന്ന രുചികൾ!

എല്ലാം ഇവിടെ തൊടിയിലുണ്ടാക്കിയ

പച്ചക്കറികളാണത്രെ!

ഓർമ്മയിൽ പൂത്തുലഞ്ഞു, ബാല്യ-

കാലത്തെ ഓണ ഘോഷങ്ങൾ

കൂട്ടുകാരോടോത്തു ചെയ്ത കുസൃതികൾ,

ഏറെ രസിച്ച കളികൾ

‘ഇത്തിരിക്കൂടെകഴിക്കൂ!’, അമ്മ

വാത്സല്യമോടെപറഞ്ഞു

ഓർമ്മകൾക്കൊപ്പം മധുരമാം പായസം

ആസ്വദിച്ചേറെക്കഴിച്ചു! 

മുറ്റത്തു കുട്ടികളോടിത്തിമിർക്കുന്നു,

പൊട്ടിച്ചിരികളുയർത്തി

മൂവാണ്ടൻ മാവിന്റെ കൊമ്പിലെയൂഞ്ഞാലിൽ

ആടി രസിക്കുവാൻ മോഹം!

കുട്ടികളെയുമവളെയും ഇക്കുറി

കൊണ്ടുവരാമായിരുന്നു

നാട്ടിലെ ഓണവും സദ്യയും കൂട്ടവും

 ഒക്കെയുമിഷ്ടമായേനേ!

മാവിന്ചുവട്ടിലേക്കേറേയുത്സാഹത്തിൽ

ആടുവാനായ് ചെന്ന നേരം

കുട്ടികുസൃതികൾ, ആരോ ഒരാളെന്നെ

മെല്ലെപിറകോട്ടു തള്ളി

പിന്നെ അശരീരി പോലെയേതോ ശബ്ദ-

മെന്റെ ചെവിയിൽ പതിഞ്ഞു

‘വേഗമെഴുന്നേറ്റ് വന്നേ, നേര-

മെട്ടരയായീട്ടോ  മാഷേ!’

‘ഓണമല്ലേ, നല്ല സദ്യ വേണം,

ഒട്ടൊക്കെ വാങ്ങിവരേണം’

ശ്രീമതി തട്ടിയുണർത്തിയതോ, സ്വപ്ന-

മായിരുന്നോ കണ്ടതെല്ലാം!

മാധുര്യമൂറുന്ന സ്വപ്ന ലഹരിയിൽ

ഓടിയൊളിക്കാൻ ശ്രമിക്കേ

ഓണമൊരുക്കുവാനുള്ള തിടുക്കത്തിൽ

വീണ്ടും അശരീരി വന്നു 

‘ഫ്രോസൺ’ ആണെങ്കിലും, ചേന വേണം,

കൂട്ടുകറിക്കത് ‘മസ്റ്റാ’

സാമ്പാറി ‘നോഥന്റീസിറ്റി’ വരുത്തുവാൻ

വേണം മുരിങ്ങക്കയൊന്ന്

കേരളപപ്പടം ഇല്ലെങ്കിലോ, ലിജ്ജത്തി-

ലാകട്ടെ ഈവര്ഷമോണം

ഉപ്പുമാങ്ങ മറക്കേണ്ട, നാരങ്ങയച്ചാർ

കുറച്ചുണ്ട് ഫ്രിഡ്ജിൽ

പായസം ബുക്കുചെയ്യാൻ വൈകി അയ്യോ! 

ഉണ്ടാക്കുവാനോ പ്രയാസം 

പാലടയാണോ എളുപ്പം? എങ്കിൽ

പഞ്ചസാര മറക്കൊല്ലേ

ഉണ്ണിക്ക് സ്വാദോടെഉണ്ണാൻ ‘പാസ്ത’

വേണം, അതിനുള്ള ‘സോസും’

മോൾക്കിന്ന്  ലഞ്ചിന്നൊരല്പം സ്വാദ്

കൂട്ടാൻ ഒരു പായ്ക്ക് ‘ലേയ്സും’

പൂക്കളും വേണം കുറച്ചു, നല്ല

പൂക്കളം മുൻപിലൊരുക്കാൻ 

വാടാത്തതായാലെളുപ്പം  പിന്നെ

‘ക്ലീനിങ്’ സൗകര്യമല്ലേ!

വേഗം പുറപ്പെടൂ, വൈകിപ്പോയാൽ

ഊണും അതുപോലെ വൈകും

പോയിവരുമ്പോഴേക്കും ‘ബ്രേക്ക്

ഫാസ്റ്റ്’ റെഡിയാക്കി വെക്കാം

ഏറെ തണുത്ത പാലിൽ കുതിർ-

ന്നാറിയ ‘കോൺ ഫ്ലെക്സി’നോർമ്മ

ഊഷ്മള സ്വപ്നങ്ങളെല്ലാം തല്ലി-

യോടിച്ചിതയ്യോ, എണീക്കാം!

ഇല്ലെങ്കിലോണവും പോകും, ഓർമയിൽ

ഒന്നും എഴുതി വെക്കാതെ!

‘ലിസ്റ്റ് റെഡിയാക്കി വെക്കൂ, ഉടൻ

ഫ്രഷായി ഞാനിതാ വന്നു’!

Onam Nostalgia

Smitha Nishant (lives in Worthington, OH with her family. She is a native of Trivandrum, India.)

Onam is one festival that I really look forward to every year. When I setup my calendar at the start of the year, it’s the date I mark down first even before I do birthdays and anniversaries. It’s the festival that I take great pride in as a Malayali as it celebrates equality, oneness, and prosperity for all.

Growing up, Onam holidays marked the end of first term at school and the dreaded Onappareeksha, and the start of a much anticipated 10-day long vacation where cousins and other family from far and near would get together at my maternal grand-mother’s (ammachy as I called her) house. Ammachy would stock up on banana chips, murukku, unniyappam, achappam, ariyunda – not just for the perpetually hungry grandkids but also to serve to the truck loads of relatives who would come visit around Onam time. My youngest uncle who was a college student at the time would put up swings for us and join us in the myriad of games we played. My mom and aunts would be busy in the kitchen with my ammachy while all of us kids would play in the grounds all day. Evenings were reserved for board games, 28, and carroms. The highlight of the avadhikkaalam was the delicious sadhyas ammachy, my aunts, and mom would prepare for Uthradam and Thiruonam, but as kids we were partial to the first Onasadhya as we would be served non-veg side dishes also, such as ammachy’s legendary mutton curry or fried chicken. She made the best tasting ada-pradhaman in the whole world (in a big uruli) that we would smash a banana into and savor with our hands from the sadhya leaf. My father being an NRI would miss most Onams but my uncles made up for his absence showering me and my sister with onakodies and other gifts.

I grew up in Trivandrum at a time when it still retained the charms of a small town despite being the capital city. I loved watching the hustle and buzzle of Onam shopping in the Chalai bazaar from my school bus as it took me back home on the last day of school before the vacation started. Onam vacations saw a lot of the immigrant residents travelling back to their native places, but it also brought in folks who descended to the capital to partake in the “Onam vaaraakhosham”. Kerala Tourism’s weeklong Onam celebrations were an integral part of my childhood. There were arts and craft fairs in the Putharikandam maithanam, and if we were lucky, the circus would come to town as well. Trees and government buildings from East Fort to Kowdiar Square would be lit up for a fortnight. I’d eagerly wait for that special evening my uncle would announce that he was going to take all of us kids to watch it – jam packed into the back of his old Ambassador, we had such fun enjoying the illuminations and festivities on both sides of the road. If we were lucky, he’d make a stop at the Kanakakunnu Palace and get us cotton candy and vanilla ice cream – special treats when we were growing up. The memories are so etched in my mind, it even brings back the scent of freshly mowed grass in the palace grounds where we would run around and play games. Uncle would then take us all to watch an Onam release movie – “My Dear Kuttichaathan” was one such unforgettable Onam release.

Trivandrum Onam celebrations culminated with a grand parade (khoshayaathra) complete with colorful floats, dancers, marching bands, roller skaters, and the Mounted Police unit of the Kerala Police. There were years I participated in the parade as part of my school’s marching band, and one year I particularly remember marching fully drenched as it rained at the start of the parade.

Growing up in the United States, I know my son Rohan has a completely different Onam experience, primarily around Malayalee association Onam celebrations and getting together with friends for Onam sadhyas. In the land of plenty, vanilla ice cream cups and cotton candy are no more desirable than pancakes or waffles. I am happy to keep it that way as I am a firm believer that your Onam experiences should be representative of your background and not artificially created to match with the stereotypes. To each, their own. 

Onam is often described as a celebration of a glorious past. That is precisely what it is to me, a reminder of a childhood full of joy, love, family get-togethers, and the simple pleasures of life. Wishing you all a very happy Onam!

പൊലിഞ്ഞുപോയ സർഗ്ഗവാസനകൾ

Unnikrishnan Nair

സുഹൃത്തേ, ഓണത്തിന് കുറച്ചെന്തെങ്കിലും Newsletter നു വേണ്ടി എഴുതാമോ എന്നുചോദിച്ചപ്പോൾ, സാധിച്ചില്ല എന്നൊറ്റവാക്കിൽ പറഞ്ഞാൽ അതു താങ്കൾക്ക് വിഷമമാകുമോ എന്നുവിചാരിച്ചു…

താങ്കളുടെ മനോമുകരത്തിൽ തെളിഞ്ഞപോലെ ഞാനൊരു നല്ല കലാ സാഹിത്യ അഭിരുചിയുള്ള വ്യക്തിയൊന്നുമല്ല എന്നറിയിക്കട്ടെ. സ്കൂൾ കോളേജ് കാലഘട്ടത്തിൽ എന്തൊക്കെയോ കുത്തികുറിച്ചിരുന്നു, കൂടാതെ നാടകം/സ്കിറ്റ് എന്നൊക്കെ പറഞ്ഞു കുറച്ചു കസർത്തു കാണിച്ചു എന്നൊഴിച്ചാൽ, വെറും നാട്ടുമ്പുത്തു കാരനായ പച്ചയായ മനുഷ്യൻ. മാത്രമല്ല കലാലയ ജീവിതം അവസാനിച്ചപ്പോൾ അവയെല്ലാം ഉപേക്ഷിക്കുകയും ചെയ്തു. ഒരുപക്ഷെ സഹപാഠികളുടെ ആദരവിനുവേണ്ടിയോ അതോ ഗുരുക്കൻമാരുടെ പ്രശംസ നേടാനുള്ള ചടുലവും സ്വാർഥവുമായ ആഗ്രഹംകൊണ്ടായിരുന്നോ അതെല്ലാം ചെയ്തത് എന്നോർമ്മയില്ല. ചെറുപ്പത്തിന്റെ വിവേകമില്ലായ്മയായേ ഇപ്പോൾ അതിനെ കാണുന്നുള്ളൂ.

സുന്ദരമായ കലാലയ ജീവിതം കഴിഞ്ഞു ജീവിത യാഥാർഥ്യങ്ങളെ അഭിമുഖീകരിച്ചു മുന്നോട്ടുള്ള പ്രയാണത്തിൽ കലയും സാഹിത്യവും കൂടെ കൊണ്ടുപോകാൻ സാധിക്കില്ലെന്നുള്ള യാഥാർഥ്യം നേരത്തേ മനസിലാക്കിയിരുന്നു.

ജീവിതത്തിന്റ സായം സന്ധ്യയിലെത്തിനിൽക്കുന്ന ഈ അവസരത്തിൽ ഒന്നു തിഞ്ഞുനോക്കിയാൽ, അന്ന് കൂടെയുണ്ടായിരുന്ന സർഗ്ഗവാസനകളൊക്കയും തുരുമ്പിച്ചുപോയി എന്നുപറഞ്ഞാൽ അതിശയോക്തിയാകില്ല. സത്യംപറഞ്ഞാൽ കയ്യിലുണ്ടായിരുന്നത് നഷ്ടപ്പെടുകയും, എന്തിനുവേണ്ടി ഓടിയിരുന്നുവോ അതു നേടിയതുമില്ല എന്ന യാഥാർഥ്യവും മനസിലായി. എങ്കിലും അല്ലലുമലച്ചിലും ഇല്ലാതെ ഇവിടെവരെയെത്തിച്ച ജഗദീശ്വരനോട് നന്ദി പറയാൻ മാത്രമേ ഈ അവസരത്തിൽ മനസുവരുന്നൊള്ളു.

ഓണാശംസകൾ…

Kids corner

The adventures of Smack-in-Cheese : Part 2

Hello my mysterious friends once again! If you still remember, my name is smack-n-cheese and my friends are nap-n-cheese and snack-n-cheese. 

This is our Quick Recap:

I got really hungry because snack-n-cheese ate everything in the house including the table and the fridge. Nap-n-cheese for some reason woke up really really quick jumping on me while I was trying to sleep. He told, it was ‘getting eaten day’ and he said he will jump on me until I become a red-hot-pepper.

Now let us start the story 

Snack-n-cheese said, luckily it is Christmas and I ate all the Christmas presents except for this black and white shovel which your great great great great great grandpa gave and which your grandpa found in the garage near your house. He says it is used to dig mystical things but I don’t believe him. He says, it will turn golden if it finds something mystical.

I said, great!! Now I can dig for mystical food, maybe it has a mystical flavor. 

Smack-n-cheese goes to the back garden and digs and digs and digs until the shovel turns golden. He finds a golden and green hot dog box with a dragon sign on it. He opened it and found a Hot Dog with the best Hot dog bun ever made and it came with ketchup and mustard. Smack-n-cheese said, this the best breakfast I have ever seen.

Snack-n-cheese sees the Hot Dog and tries to grab it from the box but a golden and yellow force field activated and Snack-n-Cheese bounced off and fell ten feet away. Then nap-n-cheese saw it and said, maybe to take the Hot Dog you have to sleep well. Nap-nCheese tried to grab the Hot Dog also but the force field activated again and he bounced off 15 feet away.

Smack-n-cheese said, I think you have to be the person who dug the Hot Dog out of the ground to take it. When Smack-n-cheese grabbed the Hot Dog, his hands went right through the force field and was able to grab the Hot Dog. When he ate it, Hot Dog’s rained from the sky and everyone had the best breakfast ever. The End!
P.S. The mystical box came from China and that is why it had a Dragon Sign

Drawing

Sahana Ravikumar

Meals on Wheels volunteers

August 23, 2020: Saira Nawaz, Razvi Razack         Completed Rt 1801

August 9, 2020: Joseph Abraham, Nancy Joseph, Joshua Abraham, Rachael Abraham               Completed Rt 1600

  Huge Thanks to the volunteers!

*** Note from EC Team ***

Dear COMA Families,

With extreme happiness ,we  would like to convey our big thank you to all who joined us to kick start our Onam in Columbus .We really appreciate the effort and hard work you put  to make this event a grand success. Everyone extended their helping hand in one way or other and showed their true camaraderie and spirit.

A big shout out to all participants and their technical teams for putting together a digital frenzy ONAM!!!! We are thankful to our “Maveli thampuran” for putting an effort to show up in Columbus in the middle of this pandemic.

Let’s keep our community vibrant and active as always!!

Regards

EC 2020.

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